Ex's marriage invitation

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by negiqboyz, Aug 27, 2009.

  1. Espresso

    Espresso Well-Known Member

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    Your a god damn scummbag.

    Attending is a guts call, but to debate even on a gift? WTF !?

    Shame on you.

    I mean, you hesitating because you have the same feelings most feel. You were hurt in some way and you feel avengeful, yet you are in a dilemna. Be a bigger person !.
     
  2. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    Wow .. I suddenly became a scumbag for drawing a line not to associate with my ex .. hmm..
     
  3. hem

    hem Well-Known Member

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    better not to go and just ignore the invitation. they 'd not notice at all....and why go/invite when no contact for 6 years?
     
  4. he's got a wife and a baby on the way u dummie -bash

    if i were u i'd talk to my wife first... but honestly if u haven't contacted her for i don't c y u should bother... the weird thing was y she sent u the wedding invitation...-what?
     
  5. xdly

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    exactly... if i havent heard of someone for a long while... i won't see that person as a friend... and non-friends are not welcome on my wedding?! so why should she invite you at first?! *dunno*
     
  6. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    Well, I didn't go nor send a gift. Thought I should just keep a clean distance especially now that my wife is pregnant, ya'll know .. the hormone is running crazy .. suspect this and that .. creating unnecessary stress over nothing. I told her later about it and she didn't mind had I gone to the wedding. Women .. always say this but want you to do that .. so yeah .. anyway, it's over now. Everything is settled .. thanks ya'll.
     
  7. lol... that's woman alright hahaha... i think what your wife really meant was she appreciates what you did for her...

    wow if her hormones r going completely crazy then you might be expecting a boy :p
     
  8. aww too bad.. you should have sent her ass a toaster.. -rotfl
     
  9. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    dude .. a toaster .. hell no .. you know that i have to paint the home office myself and put in new flooring and tile in the bathroom just to save a few bucks .. a decent toaster can buy two big cans of baby formula or 2 boxes of diapers ... lol we even celebrated our anniversary at home with tofu .. lol no vacation at all this year .. yeah .. gotta SAVE big time ...lol
     
  10. u don't have to send a decent one... could've sent a $20 one :p

    but i still it's better that u ignored the invitation... too much issues when it comes to ex... lol
     
  11. BestOffer

    BestOffer Well-Known Member

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    u are suppose to give money (by the rules) when someone invites you; you give more when u are not attending; and less when you are attending
     
  12. hahah.. that is very wise.. -worship
     
  13. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    wrong .. you supposed to give more when you're attending and less when you're not .. that's the proper way.

    if you're gonna give something other than money, make sure it's practical and decent; not some sleazy stuffs. i went to a cousin wedding once and a guest from the husband side showed up with a box of sardines and a family of 11 members.

    anyway, i didn't go nor give so .. don't care...lol
     
  14. tom88my

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    you make the right decision on not going and not sending gift. if your wife find that you didn't it spell problem..
     
  15. something practical... like a box of condoms -lol... although they might not find it very useful after the honeymoon :p
     
  16. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    why not .. condoms varies in types and they're not cheap ... lol
     
  17. should've sent her the vibrating ones puahahahahahaha... ok... this thread is turning into 18+ :p
     
  18. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ lol .. i rather save up the money for my kid .. lol ..