Your a god damn scummbag. Attending is a guts call, but to debate even on a gift? WTF !? Shame on you. I mean, you hesitating because you have the same feelings most feel. You were hurt in some way and you feel avengeful, yet you are in a dilemna. Be a bigger person !.
better not to go and just ignore the invitation. they 'd not notice at all....and why go/invite when no contact for 6 years?
he's got a wife and a baby on the way u dummie -bash if i were u i'd talk to my wife first... but honestly if u haven't contacted her for i don't c y u should bother... the weird thing was y she sent u the wedding invitation...-what?
exactly... if i havent heard of someone for a long while... i won't see that person as a friend... and non-friends are not welcome on my wedding?! so why should she invite you at first?! *dunno*
Well, I didn't go nor send a gift. Thought I should just keep a clean distance especially now that my wife is pregnant, ya'll know .. the hormone is running crazy .. suspect this and that .. creating unnecessary stress over nothing. I told her later about it and she didn't mind had I gone to the wedding. Women .. always say this but want you to do that .. so yeah .. anyway, it's over now. Everything is settled .. thanks ya'll.
lol... that's woman alright hahaha... i think what your wife really meant was she appreciates what you did for her... wow if her hormones r going completely crazy then you might be expecting a boy
dude .. a toaster .. hell no .. you know that i have to paint the home office myself and put in new flooring and tile in the bathroom just to save a few bucks .. a decent toaster can buy two big cans of baby formula or 2 boxes of diapers ... lol we even celebrated our anniversary at home with tofu .. lol no vacation at all this year .. yeah .. gotta SAVE big time ...lol
u don't have to send a decent one... could've sent a $20 one but i still it's better that u ignored the invitation... too much issues when it comes to ex... lol
u are suppose to give money (by the rules) when someone invites you; you give more when u are not attending; and less when you are attending
wrong .. you supposed to give more when you're attending and less when you're not .. that's the proper way. if you're gonna give something other than money, make sure it's practical and decent; not some sleazy stuffs. i went to a cousin wedding once and a guest from the husband side showed up with a box of sardines and a family of 11 members. anyway, i didn't go nor give so .. don't care...lol
you make the right decision on not going and not sending gift. if your wife find that you didn't it spell problem..
something practical... like a box of condoms -lol... although they might not find it very useful after the honeymoon