姐弟戀

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Phil, Jan 18, 2008.

  1. jnny

    jnny Well-Known Member

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    1-3 yrs range is ok...
    but 4+...uhh then it depends on the guy
     
  2. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    wait, if they are shorter than you that are immature?

    i didn't know genetics played a role like that
     
  3. nah... he's gotta b taller AND older... -lol

    believe it or not genetics plays a huge role... the first attraction is almost always from the appearance of the other person... most guys i know wouldn't date girls taller either... :p
     
  4. Supergluey

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    I do, my girlfriend right nwo is older than me by 2 years i'm 23 and sehs' 25. I htinkt he limit is 5 years but i have a firend who is a girl who is with a guy that is 10 years difference meaning the gilrs is younger than teh guy , a whole generation. Is it a problem, ti dpeends, for me it's a big struggle. The age gap isn't differnet is jsut taht our personality si very different, i dont' act my age, (still act as a kid, when i'm suppose to be mature, but that can be due to variosu facotrs like my family being overprotective, having like no work epxerience so i haven't experience "the real world" and its people so the way i think is more "angelic, smiple" and so forth.

    Is it bad? Well at the beignnign it was easy but when i went back fro christmas break, it was difficult, she found out abou tme being kidish.etc and variosu other things. To be honest, I always liekd girls that are the same age more than over, but somehow I got into this one becuase i like her personality. Shes is trying to chagne m to becoem more mature and i'm trying to do that beuase I love her, but to be heosnt i dont' knwo if it can be done, just hopefully it can.
     
  5. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol well loving who u cant is your own choice, u can love someone whos old enough to be your mum , if you really love them, u dont have to give a S**T about that other people think,
    Love can be blind =P
     
  6. oh that reminds me... i met a lady in her 40s n she dated a few guys in their early to mid 20s... but they never lasted very long... i think she's abt 47 now n her bf is like 26...
     
  7. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , so ur saying Age is a big problem in dating........... i mean what do u see wrong with a 45 year old women and a 25 year old man ,
    Example 2 =a 45 year man and a 20 yr old women.
    im just sayin its better for 2 ppl around the same age =P prob coz a age difference causes different thinking and etc =P
     
  8. actually... 47 y/o lady with 26 y/o guy is not so much 姐弟戀... it's more like 忘年戀...

    i'm sure age isn't a problem for most ppl... but it is for me lor :p

    here's the Nobel Prize winning scientist Yang Zhen Ling and his wife... he was 82 n she was 28 when they got married...
    [​IMG]
     
  9. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , the husband must be really happy at night times ^^. haha
     
  10. i dunno... it's prolly all the same with the lights off...

    funny how his youngest child is old enuf to b his new wife's mother...
     
  11. Flames

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    ^ thats what you call smart, when the old dude dies, the wealth is yours
     
  12. but he's got another 3 or 4 children wor... besides... he's only scientist... not a tycoon... don't think he's that rich
     
  13. Adidas

    Adidas Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, I wouldn't date anyone younger or shorter than me either :S.
     
  14. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , i mean if ur like 18 and u dated the Teacher , u think u could get a 'Rise in marks' lol? thats older relationship but at least tey're both happy ^^
     
  15. stawbewii

    stawbewii Well-Known Member

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    ^ wahh..lol 82 with 28...hmm..a play in numbers.

    i wouldn't date any1 shorter or younger than me...buut, i guess, sometimes when it comes to love, age doesn't matter? and it's so complicated = =

    My mum's aunt married a man 12 ish yrs older, and ppl ask her if that is her father??? hmm..maybe he just looks old, or she looks young? ><

    for me...maximum 7 to 8 yrs age range, since my parents are 7 yrs apart & so are my grandparents and they were married on teh SAME day. scary =S
     
  16. i still think dating ur teacher is wrong... before the student graduates

    awww... i don't think 12 yrs is too much :p as long as she always looks younger than her husband hahaha... j/k but my auntie n uncle r like that too... more than 10 yrs difference... n my uncle wasn't attractive at all... n her whole family was like "i dun understand y u married him out of all the choices u had"... but u can so easily tell she made the rite choice when i saw that smile on her face -blush2
     
  17. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol dawn can i ask u , how come ur on line like all the time, or is it holidays for u =P School starts 30 th ^^
     
  18. -offtopic

    u can ask but i won't answer -tongue2
     
  19. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    ur answer was very offtopic too lol
     
  20. actually i didn't answer -tongue2