well i would say entertain him with your own answer cause he's just asking what if this and what if that the chances are the girl isnt gonna come back lets say she does i dont think she'd even go back to him she left him for japan if that is the reason that means she knew she can live without him and plus since u were friends shouldnt she be happy for you?
Well that's what I thought. She dumped and went back to Japan and while I had a long distance chat with her, she told me to look after him and make sure that he's ok. So I called him a week later and asked him how he was holding up.......... then after a few months he asked me out. However I was reluctant to date him since he was my friend's ex. But I called her after he asked me out and told her about and asked if she's okay with it and she said that she was and is happy for me since he is great boyfriend. But now, she telling my boyfriend's sister and his relative that I had a crush on him while they were still dating and and I stole him away from her. I swear to god that I never had a thing for him when they were dating because I saw them as friends. it pisses me off to hear that what she thinks of me and spreading rumors about me.
obviously he some what still likes his ex, 3 years compared to half a year. see the difference lols. anyways, just my opinion, maybe he is over her but the memories make him wondrer.
make everything clear between u 2.. thats most important i guess. if he wants her back, u know enough... if he's choosing u, he wouldnt say it again.
as much as i don't always agree with what flaming says KILL making everything clear won't help because the boy will not be truthful about the whole thing
^ honestly...KILL it before it happens...if it happens, there's gonna be whole lot more pain. So KILL
i think he wants affirmation that you love him enough to fight for him and that you're confident enough not to worry if she comes back. But the point is not what YOU will do if she comes back... The important thing is what HE will do.
