Age difference

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by dragong87, Dec 5, 2008.

  1. kojikat

    kojikat Member

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    You have a chance, if you try I guess.
    Age difference doesn't matter I reckon from 20+ years old
    It only matters if your like 17 and shes 20
     
  2. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    Lots of people say age difference doesn't really matter but in reality it sure does! Age difference matters to a women when the guy is younger than her.
    Sure 3 year difference doesn't seem that much off but to a girl's it is! A friend of mine who was dating a girl who was 5 years older than him for about 4 years and in the end the old excuse of a break-up,
    "I've always treated you as a little brother" lol! Pure pwnage!
     
  3. andrewf444

    andrewf444 Active Member

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    Haha..that was funny. So basically the girl needs a little brother that's why she dated him for a freaking 4 years XD
    I really don't see why age would be a problem at this very day, you can date someone older than you but not younger? Wouldn't that be unfair to the guys since most guys date younger girls. One question here, why girls look for maturity? Can i make a guess that you see maturity = seriousness, secure?
     
  4. nhamb

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    does it really matter on being with someone whom there is a age different.
     
  5. ajree

    ajree Active Member

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    I do not see the problem there.
     
  6. jin

    jin Member

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    three years is not much...go for it!
     
  7. eddiekarlwong

    eddiekarlwong Member

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    Age it not a problem, my girl friend is 6 year yonger then me and we are still happy together.
     
  8. endlessluv42

    endlessluv42 Well-Known Member

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    It's really hard to say if you would have a chance with this girl that you like. In my opinion, if she's older than you by less than 5 years, then that's ok. Anything above that number, there could be a conflict of interest and generational gap as well.
     
  9. tg79

    tg79 Active Member

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    Nowadays ppl are quite open with older women with younger men relationshp. Therefore u don't have to worry about what other ppl think. As long as you are happy.
     
  10. qpower

    qpower Well-Known Member

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    Would you give up someone you like only because the person is younger than you by (4) years max?
    Its the 21st Century, love has no limits. (corny , cliche as it sounds)
     
  11. bububang

    bububang Member

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    have u ever heard , love can overcome age? i guess u can have a try 1st :)
     
  12. aznacurarsx

    aznacurarsx Active Member

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    hmmm.. i guess there is no difference but i would feel kind wierd datin someone younger then me.. iono i guess because the fact that i'm the oldest child and i would like someone to care for me instead of me caring for them.
     
  13. Retsyo

    Retsyo Well-Known Member

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    Age shouldn't be a limit to relations, but it just feels awkward to be in one where the female is older.
     
  14. Saniwa

    Saniwa Member

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    Yes, you do have a chance. It's not about age difference actually. All that matters is responsibility and maturity of you both, Since my sis is married with a guy 11 years her junior xD

    ~M
     
  15. lucky09

    lucky09 New Member

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    id think its that big of deal as long as you two likes each other and having a strong relatioship why does the ages matter then? right haha...
     
  16. olivertwist

    olivertwist Active Member

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    3 years is nothing.. 10 years now that would make a diff. ur girls gonna start sagging by the time ur in ur prime
     
  17. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    lol at the above comment, ermm i think u should give it a shot, she's not that much older though generally speaking girls do prefer to date older guys or the same age.
     
  18. weilinny

    weilinny Well-Known Member

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    I think 3 years is a small difference, so in this case, being together or not has more to do with compatibility than age.
     
  19. kinyeow1031

    kinyeow1031 Member

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    no, difficult!
     
  20. djdee

    djdee Member

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    i dislike petaphiles, seems really disturbing. of course i mean 10 years in difference