Age difference

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by dragong87, Dec 5, 2008.

  1. d15z1sux

    d15z1sux Well-Known Member

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    i think depends on what level each other is on. both need to have a common goal, if say for example the younger one just wants to party and the older one is trying to save up for a house then its not going to work. lol.
     
  2. distrikt

    distrikt Active Member

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    my first relationship
    i was 16
    and my gf at the time was a 23 japanese girl
    lol
    so you DO have a chance :)
     
  3. kakaomlk

    kakaomlk Member

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    Three years is not a huge age difference...
     
  4. ladyvince15

    ladyvince15 New Member

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    Maturity rules. if you are 20 but can act like a 25-year-old, you will be at par with your 23-year-old infatuation since girls tend to be 2 years older than their real age.
     
  5. Raymond_Cheung

    Raymond_Cheung Well-Known Member

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    Lol was she babysitting you?? :laugh:
     
  6. dragon3003

    dragon3003 Member

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    My housemate is currently dating a girl who is 3 years older then he is and they are very steady. Its all about the chemistry between the two, besides there are something thing called cougars out there.
     
  7. jenkintsui

    jenkintsui Member

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    I mean honestly, 3 years difference is not much
     
  8. laifong

    laifong Member

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    it's better for the man to be a few years older than the woman rather than vice versa
     
  9. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    3 years isn't that much but still usually it is the male who is older and the female younger and u will find that girls don't generally find younger guys attractive.
     
  10. cillee

    cillee New Member

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    Only 3 years, not a big difference.... It really depends on the girl, if she minds or not!! But if u are mature, just like her age, I think will be fine!
     
  11. if she likes you then anything can happen. good luck! ^^
     
  12. crabby1997

    crabby1997 Member

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    I don't think 3-5 years is a big difference at all.. it's really on how the way you guys are (maturity)
     
  13. doblehapp

    doblehapp New Member

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    age difference does not matter
     
  14. HeAvEnzgmaIl

    HeAvEnzgmaIl Well-Known Member

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    i seriously don't think theres anything wrong with that... but if shes more mature then you... problem dere =P
     
  15. dhunter

    dhunter Well-Known Member

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    isn't it more maturity than age.. I've dated a girl that was 8years older than me... and there were no issues.. till the end and age had nothing to do with it
     
  16. kawaiigirl

    kawaiigirl Well-Known Member

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    Nobody can judge or make a bad comment on the age difference that you have with your love. Because it concerns only you and your love and nobody else. Unless you're a person who takes great care of the family, because if the family refuses to allow you to be with someone who is too old or young, you're in trouble, you'll have to choose between 2.

    I'm actually dating someone that is 12years older than me. 2 years together happy and all. But still, my family don't like him .. They even hate him lol. Well, All that to say that age is not the main problem
     
  17. diep0003

    diep0003 Active Member

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    i would be better if the male was older but three years is not a huge age difference.
     
  18. angelazhao

    angelazhao Member

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    theres always possobilities. maybe she might think u are very mature for ur age and she might be interested. best way ti know the answer is asking her about it so you wont need to guess this and that, truthfully all of us dont know the situation between u two.
     
  19. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    from my experience, older female tend to feel insecure with younger guys. However that will depend on the age gap.

    -rockon
     
  20. warpling

    warpling Member

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    As you get older I don't think age matters as much. But when you're young, even if its just by 2-3 yrs, its a whole other story and mindset.