Seriously, I don't even know why I'm attracted to the assholes. But the thing is, the assholes aren't assholes until you actually start dating them and get to know them. When I first met my bf, he treated me the way so many girls would want to be treated by their bfs. Nowadays, he treats me like crap...
maybe it's because ya with those poor saps at the bars/clubs/parties... thas why you feel that way. But like the other dude said, he's happy with bein friendly to other pple and if no girls are attracted to that.. then thats really their lost. I'm you shouldn't always expect something good in return will happen to you everytime you do somethin good. And if you think you gotta act like a jackass sometimes to get by or accel in life... then i feel sorry for you.
Then you don't get me at all. You can feel sorry for the jackasses that doesn't know what they are doing wrong and don't know how to better themselves. I will take offence if you are accusing me of being a jackass. I joke and tease people all the time. Some comments maybe almost borderline rude, but they all know I'm just messing with them, and I would be surprised if you get the vibe that I say those things with the intention of harming someone's feelings. That's what makes me different and that's why I refused to be called a jackass. Those poor saps are at EVERY bar and club, and don't even try to deny it. It works out for me as I know it's one less competition. I strive for what I want and I don't expect things to fall on my lap. I don't expect good things to just fall on my lap out of the blue because I have done something good in the past. I don't expect to be rewarded because I give up my seat on a full bus or tram to an elderly. I don't expect people to give me anything back after giving directions to some new guy lost in town. However, when I do want something, I do take effort to achieving it. I wouldn't expect it to happen because of good deeds I have done in the past. If you can be content with whatever happens happens, then props to you. Keep trying to notice the "happy with being friendly" guys, then notice the "happy, friendly, but also know what he/she wants and goes after it" guys. They are very different, and I'll just leave it as they are both successful in their own ways... how's that. P.S. I rather be the "happy, friendly, but also know what he/she wants and goes after it" guy.
Because he's taking you for granted, shame on the bf. I vote dumping the asshole (if he truely is an asshole like you say).
