well i don't think so, that every guy is a jerk...it might be that a lot of them are jerks but like always there are surely exception....i'm so sorry for you that all guys that u had before are maybe jerks...but that's maybe not a reason to judge them all to jerks...so keep going to find....maybe u'll find some who's not a jerk =p
Trust me, there are some awesome guys out there. I guess its a whole 'try and move on' thing. Being a boy myself, I can honestly say that there are better people out there and that the guy in your story is a meanie!! Just try and live happily!
omg i did it! i read the whole story mohahah!^^ well this jin is really ">flower heart<" i think u should know more about him first. Guys would do everything... lol^^
All guys are jerk... including me... we have two head..... hard to control... Guy will guys and nerd will be nerds.
wow, read the whole post, hmm, it reminds me of back at those days, high school, 16ish and blaming each other. Laissez-faire i would say. You acted kinda..hmm but he acted hmm.. you know, not all guys are jerks. I met some jerks, but luckily there are still good blokes out there who treat you with respect just the way you treat him, mutual respect AND communication!
I think popularity is an issue when she selects guys, she wants some one popular even though he has a bad rep. that;s wat she wanted, rather than someone that likes her. There are many guys like Jin, so hey, watch out. We have seen several guys like that, we are saying, what she doing with him (the dic), but the answer is popularity, money, show, image, etc It usually don;t last, even if they get married (usually to dumb naive girls), they cheat and the girl is too dumb to figure that out. LOL Take ur pick. hehe
Wow that sucks. Honestly, i didnt think i would read the whole thing. But after readin like 2 paragraphs i realized that this was very sad but also intresting story. I hate reading. Suprisingly i read this whole thing and i realised that some guys can be jerks but not all. Personally im a guy, i dont see myself as perfect but being mistreated like that would seriously piss me off. You deserve better. Much better. The fact that u gave him so many chances and he still acted like jerk is just not worth the trouble. Advice. dont date the guys with 8 ex's, go for the guys you personally have an intrest for
Ironically how many girls I know and one that I like say, hard to find a good man. when I think good men arent hard to find, women are just hard to please. I've been known as the "nice guy" and while everyone thought me and the girl would be perfect, she rejected me, but i didnt even ask her out which is the strangest. So my 2 cents is, yes there will be some guys that are jerks just like there are of girls, but doesnt mean there arent good people out there. you have to go through the wrong people to meet the right ones.
Not all guys are jerks; I think that you are overstating yourself because you met the wrong ones. It takes two to be happy nowadays it is even hardier for a guy to meet nice girls. Many of them are so materialistic and also base on looks. I know I am going to get burn on this; but it is true.
^ make sure that doesnt apply to you before you post such comment. stop spamming, and i will not think of you as a jerk anymore.
No. Not all guys are jerks. Jin certainly wasn't a jerk when he was being sweet to you, was he? I think not. We all have our perspective. Guys are capable of being very sweet but some guys are capable of being really manipulative. Things take time. That's really all there is too it. On a more personal level, that's not something to really get upset about. It happens now and then. We all just learn to see it as experience. As far as Jin and his ex, he may be using her as rebound. *Shrugs.* But that's a guess.
So just cuz sum1 has had 8 exs theyre bad? there can be a million possibilities of why hes had 8. But yes, go for the ones your personally have interest for. Also dont go for the known players, but #s dont mean anything. You could argue that ,although on the surface it doesnt show, he had an ulterior motive the whole time with being nice to her (like sex?). thus being a jerk. However id have to say that there is no such thing that anyone does for anyone else that doesnt have an ulterior motive. Everyone does things for their own benefit, wether it be long term, short term, or for disilusioned happiness/accompishment. In the end, everyone is a jerk. The only difference is wether other people can recognize it. Things like what he did shows very clearly that hes a jerk. Things that some other nice people do, usually dont show. Im one of the nice ones, and i know that in the end, everything i do for other people, i hope for some sort of acceptance from others. I doubt anyone can say theyre different if u really think what your true motives are. I also find it pretty anoying that these guys are the ones girls usually fall for. Its pretty much their fualt for getting into this. There are so many so called "nice guys" out there yet theyre always just left aside. And even though you MAY chose to date one of the nice ones, most of the time you take advantage of them in the end. I was too nice, and my gf basically cheated on me cuz she knew shed get away with it. Im too fkin nice to do anything. However, this experience has let these problems come to light for me, and i find it a valuable experience. I find that both of us are too immature, she wanted me cuz she wanted control and cuz she wanted to be wanted by someone else. I wanted her cuz i wanted to be wanted, and for basically sex(the human nature to want to mate, wether u actually get to it or not). Ive made a decision not to date anymore until i can actually like a girl for who she is, and not cuz shes hot/cute. I just hope that this is actually possible. I doubt pretty much the fact that love exists wherin you actually like the character of a person without the need of sex/looks w/e. Right now, i find love is just a big coverup for who we really are as human beings. In the end, nice guys lose. Showy jerks, win. Not our fualt who you people chose and how you act. Hope i dont get flamed?? lolz
For me.... Everyone is a JERK depends on The SItuation... Let's say, when a guy chase a girl, the girl will be The JERK... After some time..., the girl becomes his Girlfriend, then This time... the bOY usually become The JERKS !!!!
