I remember u said something about having 20 bfs...so I'll assume u got ur first bf when u're 18, so with the breakup and assuming u have a 1 yr relationship with ur ex's that means u're around 58 or 59yrs old!-rolleyes
intersting both girls and guys want to spend some time alone. it's like a trend now to be single and always opne to flings. weird trend going on right now...
I have TONS of friends who have to always be in a relationship. If they're not, it's like they can't function normally. Me, personally, I'm happy if I'm in a relationship with someone I love and I'm happy if I'm single. I believe a person has to be able to be single sometimes because that's when you find who you are and develop your own personality and become a stronger person. There's nothing wrong with being single - you can do things that people in relationships can't, and you aren't accountable to another person.
i'm pretty useless... it takes me forever to get over one guy... so i pretty much tend to stay single for yrs before i move on to the next guy...
I think the reason why people jump between relationships is because they are seeking attention. It is probably because they parents are not acknowledging them, hence, they go and find someone else to be close and intimate and to feel they exist and is needed. Those type of people do seriously need therapy!!!!! Unless it's a trend in HK (which i find common between the YOUNG ones) to be with someone. But really....THANKS BUT NO THANKS. Why waste time, effort and money with someone you dont love? Isn't it more worthwhile if you were with someone that loves you inside out? Why just go for lust?? Sad but many kids in HK are left alone at home because the parents are always working so really, can hardly blame on the parents for that.
hows about a guy, whos lost n doesnt know whether 2 go back 2 single or mend someone's heart like me?
then i think u should just take a time out an go and clear ur thoughts, sort out ur feelings first n then u'll kno what to do..hopefully... anyways bk to OP: seeing as i dont really hav much experience with dating etc..after my first break up..felt really down and depressed...stayed single for nearly a year..i didnt automatically go out with some1 else cos i knew it would be rebound and that wouldnt be really fair on the guy...s0 basically just took a breather and got over my ex...focused more on the positive side of things after like 2-3 months of moping about...and yeh...thats it..
Even if you are not initially attracted to someone, proximity and physical contact can greatly encourage love to develop. You can grow to love your 'rebound'.
lol personally i take breaks after a break up.. if i was dumped b/c rebounds don't work for me.. i end up dumping them after a bit.. since i don't like them enough.. i mean.. u need time to get over the person who dumped u right? but if ur attracted to someone else already then u dont need a break i guess LOL
WTH??? hahahaha i DID NOT say thatttt!! i do remember another girl saying shes got like 10 bfs and i was like whoaa....at this rate ull be having xamount of bfs when ur 40ish or something....hahahhaa 20 bfs....wthhhhh.....
i hate the feeling of being alone, especially when it's cold =[ but now that i have a bf, i love it. after a break-up, yea many people tend to find another person quick, maybe to have someone replace the old one ? but i won't be able to. i'll need plenty of time to heal from a break-up. it sucks !
yes you can and i've seen many like that i've seen many people be in several year relationships because of that BUT at the same time, because they didn't take time to find someone and it was rather "random" than the couple have some real compatibility issues then they are stuck they are in love with someone they aren't compatible with and even worse, the people who do that, tend to have many cycles of relationships over and over that are like this cause when their uncompatible relationship ends, often due to that issue, they jump into another quick relationship which they later on find to be not compatible again
usually im just isolate myself..doing things im favourite..when it comes to the right time to face people again..i will make the move for it =p
rebounddddd lol its nout to do with bein scared of bein alone really does help to get over someone though well okay not if that person looks for a new relationship lol
