Are you scared of being alone?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Oct 22, 2007.

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What do you do after a breakup

  1. I'm a guy, and I enjoy being single for a while

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    36.1%
  2. I'm a guy, and I'm back out there playing the field

    13 vote(s)
    15.7%
  3. I'm a gal, and I take some time away from relationships

    21 vote(s)
    25.3%
  4. I'm a gal, and I want to find someone to spend my time with

    19 vote(s)
    22.9%
  1. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    I'm enjoying my singlehood...though sometimes i do feel a lil lonely la...
     
  2. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    thats the price u have to pay for it...
    when ur in a relationship with someone u might miss ur freedom at times too right...
    ppl are just never satisfied :p
     
  3. Nervios

    Nervios Well-Known Member

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    i know a friend...who literally cant live being single... after a break-up she somehow finds another man...so fast...
     
  4. sundayspaper

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    I'm scared crapless about being alone, but I can't seem to stick around in a relationship. Committment issues perhaps? It's just not something I'm good at. I'm not a mushy kind of girl, so if the guy shows any signs of being mushy or cheesy (and he's not joking about it) I'm done. Can't handle it. Choose not to even try. O_O

    ...I suck. lol
     
  5. maybellina

    maybellina Well-Known Member

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    Being single is actually not that bad~ But sometimes when I think of being alone, it does scares me...feeling of being lonely...*sigh* but then again, what can I do but to suck it up right? :p That's when I call up my friends and organize outings. LOL.
     
  6. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    its good to have a bit of companionship once in a while, whther relationship or just a close friend. Right now i'm single, don't want to commit to anyone but i wouldn't mind finding someone to date. Just want to have fun while i'm young and reduce the headaches of being in a serious relationship
     
  7. yumdedumjenn

    yumdedumjenn Well-Known Member

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    sometimes it is better to take time off in a relationship or getting into one, because if you jump right into another relationship it might be unfair to the other person and that'll make you miserable and the other person might possibly get hurt too...
     
  8. WinGirl

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    when i was younger i was scared that I'd be alone. Now i am older a stuck in a selfish faze, i quite enjoy being single. Noone to worry about and to please except myself. Life can be great!
     
  9. shadow111

    shadow111 New Member

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    i was scared to be alone.. maybe when i was 6 -tongue2

    haha jk jk
    it reallly depends on what situation you're in. Maybe you're alone in a place you're not familiar with and get lost.. being alone would be ba in that situation.. but just your own personal space and time alone is good :)
     
  10. cyndy123

    cyndy123 Well-Known Member

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    If i broke up with someone, i will not think another relationship because it might been very stressful, and depressing. I won't be hoping to have this experience again. Although i never dated someone, but i used to like a guy but he has a girlfriend now and i suddenly feel hopeless, so decided not to think about relationships or love affairs, coz same thing might happen again and again, which maybe depressing and wasting time.
     
  11. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    I enjoy being alone for a while and at the same time I analysis the reasons cause broke up.That is why I don't have a lot of broke ups.
     
  12. ckhar

    ckhar Well-Known Member

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    for me, i'll straightaway look for another girlfriend...... can hate being alone.......
     
  13. smallb

    smallb Active Member

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    Well.. Honestly.. I am afraid of being lonely.. Because i grew up being lonely most of the time.. I don't have any siblings.. As the only child.. I the only companion i could have when i was young was my neighbors.. We played together often.. but limited time.. Due to my parents.. They wouldn't allow my to stay out for a long time.. only from 5pm -7pm... The rest of the time.. I would be playing on my own.. With my toys.. As i grew older.. Through the period when we start to be in a relationship.. That's where i start to get to get accompany from.. Apart from that.. When relationships don't work out.. I tend to get lonely again.. As each of my gf.. Would actually come over to live with me.. Together.. And being together for such a long period of time.. I have gotten used to it where i wouldn't be lonely at night.. Because they were beside me.. Well.. I would say that.. After breaking up in a relationship.. Most of the time.. I'll be afraid to be lonely.. But as time pass by.. I'll get used to it.. Its part of life tho.. But things are not as bad as it used to be compared to last time.. Im such an emo person compared to now.. Emo-lution all the way.
     
  14. ckyong28

    ckyong28 Member

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    I would not afraid of being alone because I have friends and family members.
    I would find a new friend then !
     
  15. turbobenx

    turbobenx .........

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    good question man, i dont even kno. But wateva happens, happens.
     
  16. nutrilift

    nutrilift Member

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    if the relationship was a long one, then I naturally wait a little before...
    just respecting the past soulmate.

    if it's a week long relationship, then I must felt nothing. So, I'm already ready for hunting :D
     
  17. cicipeepee

    cicipeepee Active Member

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    i would take some time off... because first... it would not be fair to the person you go with right away because then you would probably treat him like a rebound. And take time to get to know YOURSELF, learn what YOU want, what YOU need, what YOU have to offer.. think about what YOU did wrong in a relationship and work on it the next time
     
  18. daniel5007

    daniel5007 Member

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    sometimes scare sometimes no...depend..if i busy wit my stuff...may be wont think about it...
     
  19. xpandax

    xpandax Member

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    I would do things I normally do with friends, but without the other half or even things that I do alone. I'm not ready for a new relationship in a while. If you truely love the person before and you just broke up with them then the thing is you should be alone for a while. I do not see how ppl can break up today and a new partner the next day. Shouldn't that be considered a random play?