Are you the same towards everyone?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by xiaojia, Apr 24, 2007.

  1. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    there's no doubt that i'll act differently depending on the situation and day and group of people. parents & friends: big, HUGE gap of course in the way i act. for the people who don't know me well or don't see me often, they probably have one perspective of me. however, those that do see me often probably have seen my multiple sides of being both shy/quiet and loud/rowdy. i doubt any one person completely knows all sides of another person. it's just impossible as i don't think i totally know myself either.
     
  2. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    Now thats a pretty good explaination there... So.. is it possible for one to be perceived to have multiple split personalities due to this? Especially if your behaviour varies a lot from one group to another? Although it might seem all rational to you, others might not see it as that, and get puzzled by your multi-face.. which can be negative.
     
  3. little_angel_846

    little_angel_846 Active Member

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    im diff wif diff group~ becuz each group is diff for me, so we hang out differently and we play differently, therefore i act differently~
     
  4. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    im different towards people i dont know that well.
    & im really hyper around my close friends sometimes. -^_^
     
  5. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    Uhh, exactly the same here! If I'm with my closest friends I can be extravert because I feel safe, I know they know me and they'll understand my sense of humor. With other group of friends, the less closer ones or if there are already a few extraverted types in the group, I tend to keep low profile.

    Most people automatically adjust themselves to the various types of other people and some really don't care about others and are always themselves loud or quiet.
     
  6. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Yes of course I'll act differently with my dad, closest gal pal, boyfriend etc. How can you be the same towards everyone?
    Can you be affectionate and loving towards a stranger?
    I only let those closest to me to see the vulnerable part of me.
     
  7. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    yup.... i act differently to different ppl.... the closer i am to someone the more open i am.... there are those that know everything n see me act as i truely am.... n there are those who know nothing n see a "normal" person
     
  8. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    i am the same towards anyone and everyone except the ones i totally hate or despise
     
  9. xxsweetheartxx

    xxsweetheartxx Well-Known Member

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    everyone acts different with different people depending on how well you know them, that's a fact, if anyone tells you otherwise, they're lying