u know exactly what i mean.. diff't era, diff't generation. how much consequetives, or even attempts ? just 1, for as far as i can remember. come on now. !
yeh like sumone sed b4 flirt and see if she reacts, or just make the move before your window of opportunity is over... if you take too long i think the spark will die. also you go out with someone so that you can get to know them better, thats what i think anyway... but i understand that you value her as a friend too? but we all need to take risks in our lives.
lol @ girls who say: "be yourself, hope you succeed" it should be more like: "be yourself and hope everything will fall into place by itself"
i've been lurking here for a while but i have to break my silence as this thread caught my attention.. when a girl likes you, you can always tell unless you're retarded.. girls will always give subtle signals (sometimes pretty obvious ones) whether if she's interested in you or not. i think you already have the answer yourself, you just have to get over your fear of rejection. try this, instead of asking her out for a date... invite her to your house .. just learn to cook a simple meal for her ... if she agrees, then it's pretty much 'on', and you can bring it to the next level if you want to... it's up to you to pull the trigger . you can also start with a simple massage, tell her your body is so sore after hitting the gym everyday and you need some massage ... try it.. works like 'magic'. about the long term relationship part, that's just silly, nobody can guarantee if a relationship is going to last forever, there are so many other factors involved, she could be the one who dumps for all i care, i say, life is short, just do it and stay 'attractive', always. if it doesn't work out, then just move on. your friend is right too, if you end up in the 'friendship' zone for too long, it's going to be much harder to bring it to the next level. so strike the iron while it's still hot. be a man! good luck
this sounds like the best comment ive seen so far...shes been to my house a lot the past few weeks...she met my parents and talked to them like twice already... shes quite fond of my mom's oragami skills and wanted me to help her buy the same brand my mom uses...
Jesus, man. She's been camping out at your house and she's met your parents? LOL... like, what the hell are you waiting for? She's like your wife already. -bigsmiles Like, if I were in your place, we would be picking out wallpaper for the nursery... -woot2
no shes lives like 5-10 minute away from me, and not to mention she only met my parents cuz i asked her out for dinner and she came up to wait for me...and another time was my friends were all suppoes to meet at my house to go to this theme park...so yeh...its not what it seems
Communication number 1, Try to be a lil tricky and ask her things to know her character. Or just be a men and tell her you like her more than just frends and see what her reaction is. At least she knows you like her...thinking and imagine the whole situation is so bad, just do teh straight to the point stuff and discus about the things u want to know ab her...
Since you go to the gym then you are probably a big guy. Use your guts and ask her directly. Stop wearing a little skirt playing behind the bushes! "Be all you can be"....oops, that's only in the military. "Be a macho man!" - Good luck!
from a girl's point of view: I think you should go on dates more often with this girl to see what kind of feelings you have when you're with her. Does she make you feel comfortable, is she the type of girl you would wanna be with for a long time since you're into long term relationships. I mean right now it's not all about her...it's also about you. When you go on dates, choose places that are romantic and see if there are any feelings there. If there is chemistry, then things will evolve naturally. You wouldn't have to ask her to be your girlfriend right away, that's why you should always date for a while before asking her to be your girl. On the other hand, you have to be honest with yourself, if there is no chemistry, then you are better off being friends...you can't force love to happen. If she is showing you signs of interest, you should take advantage of those moments and show her that you're interested too. Honestly, little things that you can do will impress a girl. Perhaps when you go out on dates ALONE, always open the door for her, bring flowers for her on dates, or gifts that reminds you of her...etc. ( just do things for her that normal friends wouldn't do) Trust me, little things you do will add up and she will know that you are interested just by your actions, you don't even need to say anything, because that will only make it awkward between you guys. I hope this helps and keep me updated on your progress with this girl =)
here's a tip: play the value game. make your values increase or high. e.g. i saved my friend's life few days ago. i don't just pay for any girl.
and here i thought flaming said he was out of here on topic, i think she totally likes you and its time for you to take the relationship to the next step!
