she doesnt have many friends right`? buh she relies on cos u seem to be da only person nice to her...``? i fink even tho shes in the wrong, u shouldn't like break the friendship off or anythin...`` if not anythin..she needs u there to guide her and tell her wat shes doin wrong..like..smack her or somefin`` love` mon
this confused me i've been doing this for 5 years now (i've know her for 10 years) can i get a break when do i get to end my suffering the thing is before, we use to hang out alot we use to have fun, and during that time i use to teach her how to be poliet and not wasteful but then we started to spend less time becuase when we got into college i lived with her the first year i didn't want to spend 24 hours with her, i made some new friends than the following year i moved back in with my parents, which let me to spend even less time with her I always had to get ahold of her to hang out, she would never initiate anything i would go over to her place and hang out with her room mate, and she wouldn't join us, unless she was bored the only time i would hear from her first was when it was about giving/getting christmas and birthday presents, i'm so tired of shopping for presents for people i dont care about and now she only gets a hold of me when he feels like she HAS too (ie her room mate telling her to) or when she needs something she left for a one year exchange program to japan during her whole trip she never initiated a single conversation with me on msn i always had to talk to her she did call me when she came home for one week to go shopping with her what happened? she brought her mom(her money), and all they did was hunt around for some REALLY expensive purse(and ugly but BRAND) she wouldn't tell me anything about her travels, schools, friends, boys, NOTHING just, "do you like this dangly thing? i want something with a dangly thing" and she talked to her mom more than me the reason i'm annoyed she talked to her mom more is, she was home for a week, she lived with her mom, ate dinners and lunch with her mom, and i only had this 3 hour window gap to see her, and she spends more than have of it with her mom even when she came back, she never told me much about her trip, never showed me pictures this topic was brought up the last time i talked/fought with her she said "nothing is new, i've been to japan before" yea but have you been living there on your own before, not travel? have you been to school there? had time to make close friends, go clubbing and sing K and join school activities yes relationships aren't 50/50 but when it ties down to 95/5 and your still calling me a really close friend that's just bullshit she needs to learn some real social skills
well my advice would be to look at it in her perspective or something. yeah take a break theres only so much u can do for her. she has to grow up on her own. lead her down the right path yoda. opps sorry i didnt read your last post. if that was my mate id thump him or just ignore him/her i mean if your have other friends then shes dispensible. sorr y if im being harsh but sounds like she needs u more then u need her and shes not being a good chum
well simply just tell her to f--- off i mean you can be nice and you can be mean too i mean forgive and forget right... then forget about her
