:( exactly the same situation as me sigh* my friends told me to build a bridge and get over it. Its a bit hard when its 3 years and your first bf. Totally understand where you are coming from. My advice would be to wake up tomorow make yourself feel pretty and go out and do things and keep yourself busy and move on.
Here's what you should do: 1. You're in your late twenties, tell your parents to shut the f#&k up, then move out. 2. Buy paint stripper and pour it on your ex's car. It's obvious he's been cheating on you. 3. Hit the gym and tone those lady lumps. 4. Hit the shops and get some retail therapy. 5. Call your girl friends and hit the night clubs. You're twenty something and only had 1 boy friend! You can't judge whether he's been a good/bad until you've played the field. 6. Call Tony if you have no luck in the night club.
haha interesting posts from everyone leave it as is and move on while u are still ahead, u go back now would have to restart the days over and then you'd be in this loop... on behalf of all males i am sorry he did this to you, but you are a sweet girl, revenge isn't in your dictionary, so leave him be as is and let the toll of life, karma, handle it. You will know the truth as you knew there was this girl he's been talking to, so why bother? as far as your parents goes... its fine 2 live with them... but you need to learn 2 be more independent, learn 2 make decisions for yourself... if you live in usa i expect more freedom from you than this haha... but if u live in hk.. i can understand a certain extent, but nevertheless, be yourself.
Lol, 90% of break up, you prolly wouldn't end up friends. And like there has to be a reason for the break up. If he wants to be friends for his own selfish reasons, then dont bother there's just no point. Ya gotta push the stress back on to him. Other things is, as strict as parents are, you need not worry about that. They are more worried you'll get into the wrong crew. But you're old enough and can decide for your self. Legally they have no rights over you once you're 18. And plus if you find someone else, just got for it, the parents will eventually make amends. You just have to go over the border and they'll forget about it.
Because you've been together for 3 years ... I think you 2 should talk. You deserve closure so that you can move on.
would you really still wanna be with someone who dumped you? that guy was probably using your strict parents as an excuse. Normally, if a guy REALLY loves a girl. he would not care what the parents say and would try everything to work it out. think about it, has your bf even tried?
go get drunk, have fun and move on... the only way to mend a broken heart,, and oh yea move out too this guy is not worth anymore of your time so confronting him will only be feeding his ego because he can see that you still care/have feelings for him and plus he can use that to his advantage and manipulate your feelings even more
