that can't be right.... r u saying that everyone who is married has cheated b4 in the past? -shock i really believe that there are loyal guys out there. you just need to find the right one.
well... not EVERYONE haha... some r too ugly or they don't have the $$... even if u've found urself a really really decent guy... but there's no guarantee all his friends are the same... some of the bad friends might just try to temp him every now and then n one day that decent man might just think "stuff everything i'll just give this a try... u only live once after all" n then after he tried other women he might think "oh wow... so this is wot i've missed out all those years...??!! how stupid was i?" n keeps cheating... coz he wanna make up for all those years...
awww u sound like u're stpuid but u're nott..its ok..cheat on them bak =) revenge is sweet lol they check my id too
Personally, I think cheating is an unforgivable action. -nono Why not just end the relationship if you're going to cheat? Not only r you hurting the person you love but you may be the sole reason for separating the family. I really believe if you find the right kind of guy, he won't be someone who is so easily tempted by his friends.
well... sometimes when a man cheat it doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife anymore... men can love more than one person... there're hundreds of reasons (excuses) on why they cheat... some men might think he's he has done a good job on being a good husband and a good father... for all his life he's been working to support his family... it's about time he goes to do something for himself... some might think he's getting old... being with someone younger makes him feel young too... some might say they love their wife... but the passion between them is gone... she's become a part of him... he doesn't wanna lose her... just like he doesn't wanna lose his hands... but u don't c a man caressing his hand and say "oh ur so beautiful... oh i love u..." they want to experience something new... in the end it's up to the woman to learn to forgive the man if he's worth it...
Wow. I do agree that the passion between a couple can't last forever. But I feel like if the girl can learn restraint, why can't the guy? It just sounds so harsh... and depressing. This can't be it. <covers ears> I must fight the system! -scooter Against the inevitable! Roarrrrrr!!!!!-shoot
hahaha... men and women think differently... the majority of women can restraint themselves... but we can't expect men to do the same... our brains work differently... look at it this way... men r just too weak and incompetent... they need our help to pull them back on the right track...
lol.... i guess that's one way of looking at it. i guess that's why traditional chinese folks believe that the girl should be a rather good cook in order to keep the husband's heart. it really makes me wonder if monogamy is natural. -unsure
ummm... somone once said to me going back to Eolithic a caveman's role is to go out there and reproduce with as many female as possible so make the strongest ofsprings... a female's role is to take care of her children and family... so men's excuse is that "it's in their nature" don't give in to polygamy... just help the men evolve into smarter humans...
Yea I've heard of that also. Crazy how though we once thought that birds are monogamous but now we know they aren't. Getting back to the main topic though, I have found over the years that compatibility is real important. And I don't mean just getting along but I mean having common interests. Otherwise, it'd go sour really quick if there's nothing interesting to talk about on a date. Also, it's very important for the girl to know when to yield and when not to. It's nice having someone with their own thoughts and values. That way they can point you to the right path if you're being a complete dork. And I'm definitely all for the independent women type. Although there are a couple of things that I find very attractive about traditional women (ie. knowing how to cook and take care of the household). But even more, I especially respect woman who head into med-school. I mean they're giving a significant portion of their time to do something they love. And I know it doesn't sound too different from guys who are pre-med but I heard it's generally recommended that girls have their first-born (if they want children) before their 30s. And well, if you are doing 7 years of med-school, it's especially difficult to find your other half and have children, and still have time for your career.
