Breaking Up To Test Feelings?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by stardust, Aug 9, 2006.

  1. om@

    om@ Active Member

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    thats so meann... what if after you "break up", things are different from then on?

    altho it does give perspective of the relationship
     
  2. allyli

    allyli Member

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    not a good idea!
     
  3. Mi1ky

    Mi1ky Member

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    not a good idea.

    there is not point... just waste my time
     
  4. grumpy123

    grumpy123 Member

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    i dont think thats a very smart thing to do. not only are you hurting the other person, but also the relationship. in high school, there was this couple that would break up every couple of days. it just became a routine. everyone around them knew they wouldnt last. and they didnt. it was just sad because it seemed like a game to them.
     
  5. it could b fun... i mean if u have an amzing person sitting right here beside u everyday u'll take it for granted... until u lose that person u realis how important that person it is to u... n the moment u get that person back u'll think to urself "THANK GOD FOR GIVING HIM/HER BACK TO ME!!! I SHALL NEVER TREAT THIS PERSON BAD AGAIN!!"... n wait for a few years for this to happen again :p

    of coz u don't do this everyday... it gets annoying...
     
  6. DEE.

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    My good friend did it to her boyfriend once. Wasn't a good idea. Screwed up their relationship and now she regrets it. They're not together anymore. She's still hung over him, while he's moved on.
     
  7. cheanyau

    cheanyau Member

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    No...i definitely won't fool around wif these kind of things
     
  8. chickensoup

    chickensoup Member

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    this is stupid, people do this cause they dont even know what they want and where they want to go
     
  9. jet

    jet Member

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    no. i can't think of a more idiotic thing to do.
     
  10. babyyjuju

    babyyjuju Well-Known Member

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    ive known people who did it. guess what? ends up two broken hearts. and they ccried and cried asking why you gotta do that. and stuff. "is it that i dont show my love to you enough" and etc. just questions the relationship. its a NEGATIVE.
     
  11. bubs132

    bubs132 Well-Known Member

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    no, it's stupid and immature to do so.
     
  12. purply-sky

    purply-sky Member

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    i've never tried it cuz it's too risky... you might not be able to be with the person ever again...
     
  13. superchrls

    superchrls Well-Known Member

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    If you're that unsure of how she really feels maybe you shouldn't be together anyway. There must be some communication problem.
     
  14. tallgirl888

    tallgirl888 Well-Known Member

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    Girls love to test guys all the time, I don't know if it's insticknts...but why hurt someone like that? They might never come back!