Can a girl accept that she has to share her bf with others?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Nawainruk, Jul 9, 2008.

  1. Japen

    Japen Active Member

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    oh my god never!
     
  2. sirena

    sirena Active Member

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    I agree, but there are some girls who do turn a blind eye because they believe their bf will come back to them or whatever, but they shouldn't. Why should a girl lower herself to be with a guy who cheats on them or claims to love them and someone else and gives them the line: "I can't decide". In reply to the second part of your post, some people don't mind their partners flirting when they trust their partners enough to know there is nothing between the two, and it's all fun. However, sharing is different, it actually cheating but with a more tolerance.

    Lastly, I completely agree with the person who started the thread. Men will never accept that he has to share his girl, so I ask: Why should women?
     
  3. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    I say, bring back the old law where guys can have multiples of wives! Like the drama/series 韋小寶! Haha!
     
  4. sirena

    sirena Active Member

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    You can, there are places like Bountiful, Alberta and parts of Asia that are like that. Move there. However, be warned that Bountiful may include incestous-ness.
     
  5. cicak

    cicak Member

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    Maybe not now... but somewhere in the future might happen... haha... girls population is growing..
     
  6. sirena

    sirena Active Member

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    I really hope not. that would be like going backwards. not to mention unfair to women
     
  7. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol but seriously if u were a guy , and uhad like 4 gfs and they didnt mind, u would be WIN!
     
  8. sirena

    sirena Active Member

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    thatz cuz guys think with their *ahem*, that's why having multiple wives is the ultimate guy dream!
     
  9. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , yer, what else we think with? lol anyway , its Win, if its a bitchy fit like, where people try to kill each other and etc, then i say stick with one,
    dont want anyone to get hurt :p
     
  10. jazlynnyee

    jazlynnyee Fantabulous!!!

    what a dumb question :nuts:
     
  11. koolbeans14

    koolbeans14 Member

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    ddeeeeeffffinnnnaaatteeelllyyyyy noooooooooooooooooo. :no:

    if you tell people that you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, 99.9% of the time that means you are in a commited relationship.

    and plus....its not called sharing...its called cheating and you know about it.
     
  12. oh woww this is NO WAY!!!!....i am sure no girls will accept sharing a bf!!!!!
     
  13. woeijing83

    woeijing83 Active Member

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    no way...wat a question....ask urself.....r u felling ok?? need a dr?
     
  14. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Flirting is ok as long as it isn't serious and not going overboard. I trust my boyfriend enough to know where the limit is. Hanging out with other girls will definitely mean some flirting and the only way of not flirting is to not let him mix with girls, which is insane.

    But sharing is not ok. As mentioned, it's not sharing, it's cheating. A big nono. I would start looking for a guy who wants only me because I want only 1 guy.

    For guys who dream of 4 wives, good luck in handling the arguements and backstabbing happening to your wives. 4 wives = 4x the trouble since no woman is ever willing to share her husband.

    Besides, if polygamy comes back, polygyny should come back in too. :p
     
  15. cuddlemuffins

    cuddlemuffins Member

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    Sharing is caring.

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  16. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Well, not always. In this case, sharing is cheating.
     
  17. cuddlemuffins

    cuddlemuffins Member

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    Sharing is not cheating handoff1

    Sharing is KNOWINGLY sharing you're partner with someone else. It's called playing and it's a common practice before people get married/settled down. Cheating is fucking someone else without you knowing.
     
  18. cuddlemuffins

    cuddlemuffins Member

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    You know nothing. It's not cheating as mentioned before and it's not as simple as saying "hell no". If you're going to commit to someone you're whole life wouldn't you want to be given the chance to be with others (potentially the better fit for you instead of you're current bf/gf) before you rot you're bloody wrinkling body with one (possibly very flawed) person. People do this to avoid future divorces.
     
  19. Weberley333

    Weberley333 Member

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    definately not!
     
  20. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    It is cheating. Do you know there are any types of cheating? Emotional cheating is when you like someone and is having a kinda relationship wif them even though you don't have sex with that person. You are still cheating.

    You can share sex friends but you can't share your boyfriend. If you're with someone that you feel isn't suited for you, then break up and look for someone else. Going with someone else while you're bring with someone in a committed relationship is cheating.

    Besides, your thinking is awfully one sided. Would you share your boyfriend with someone?The person you love and want to be with, that kind. There's no reason to be with someone if you don't feel that way about that person.

    Can you sleep at night when you know he's thinking about some other girl, and spends a few hours a day to be with her as well.

    You can still choose the partner you want to be with before you're married but you cannot cheat on your partner. Break up and go ahead. What so hard?