Can luv really last a lifetime?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by stardust, Sep 16, 2006.

  1. maybe they've been thru so much that they appreciate n love each other even after all those years...

    wait wha?? whad did I say?? -lol


    hey senti02.. thas a funny ass pic.. xD ahahaha
     
  2. mizappie

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    it is possible but its extremely hard to last a lifetime =/
     
  3. the thread starter hasnt specified what kind of love it is :p

    so i am free to answer as i see fit.

    love can last indefinitely. you love your families dont you? i mean, i love mine, and i cant think of any circumstance that makes me hate them.

    so, to answer the question, yes it can last more then a life time. it can last forever.
     
  4. evalnekochan

    evalnekochan Well-Known Member

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    i guess if its your true love :)
     
  5. havoc

    havoc Well-Known Member

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    so young and cynical ;)

    how are you so sure since you've never been in love?

    yup. for a lot of people, they tend to confuse love with companionship. there are couples who remain in the relationship/marriage because they are conditioned by each other and can't fanthom life without one another. this does not necessarily mean they are in love.
     
  6. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    "Nothing is either good nor bad, but thinking makes it so."
    IMO, it's perception that matters- there is no definite reality.

    I don't believe in destiny, true love etc., only what our mind creates of it.
     
  7. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

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    Love is eternal. It is often obscured by negative and selfish thoughts though. One needs to act tough to overcome this negativity and think of the land of the eternal bliss.
     
  8. liltigger23

    liltigger23 Well-Known Member

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    it rly depends on what you're referring to as love..
    but the initial passion in a relationship definitely does not last forever..
    it grows into a different love..
    like when ur married and you live together for like 60 yrs.. it's no longer that initial passion.. but a mature love... ?

    i totally agree. tried and failed.
     
  9. mizbbyangel

    mizbbyangel Active Member

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    i believe it's possible i have seen people that loved each other for almost their whole life time. it depends on how well you guys click know each other and trust each other
     
  10. karoen

    karoen Well-Known Member

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    true love can last forever
     
  11. cadeline

    cadeline Well-Known Member

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    Great advice and so true!!
     
  12. turbobenx

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    well, alot of sneior citizens been through all that. I gotta ask my gramps about this, man.
     
  13. PHCOP101

    PHCOP101 Member

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    WAKE UP boys and girls!!!
    look at the reality!!! look at the fact!!!
     
  14. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol love could prob last till a lifetime when ur both 60 + lol , then theres like no chance for a divoice unless somefing happens
     
  15. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Love can last a lifetime, marriage cannot. That's why people shouldn't get married.
     
  16. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    How can marriage not last a life time if love is there? :nuts:
     
  17. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Because marriage isn't based on love. It is based on the "getting used to" between two persons.

    A person can love another even when marriage fails. I don't believe marriage is anything but convenience.
     
  18. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    That brings up the question why ppl marry in the first place? -mellow
     
  19. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

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    This is too hard work, why make it difficult for yourselves. the far easier alternative is to have low expectation.
    Love is pure and simple. A low expectation means you get there quicker and effortless. High expectation tends to lead to disappointment and lots of re-work. Compromising is a technique to reduce expectation to a lower level so this is good suggestion.
     
  20. jly1981

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    Love can definitely last a life time if the parties involved choose to do so.As the song goes "Love takes time", but once you actually you find true love you will know it. And this spiritual bond is normally not easy to break. Anyway that's my two cents worth. Cheers!