Can you ever forget your first love

i guess because my first love was also a puppy love, i have problems trying to recall what are the sweet things we did when we were together!

 

Yes of cos and we good friends now and keep in contact everytime I go back to Malaysia we will go for coffee...

 

Nooooooooooooooo........... Sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.............. Cannottttttttttttttttt........... T.t

 

Its easy said than done. Its hard to forget the good times and things you do together!

 

u can never forget ur first love.. it's love afterall..but.. i say u can def. move on and love someone else

 

what is the definition of "forget"? coz u still think of him/her as your first bf/gf... but if "forget" is just like... i'm done with you, you're just my ex... then i definitely forgot him hhahaha

 

it is hard to forget your first love because it is your first experience that you have for love. People say that "Your first impression is always your best impression". I think you can relate this to your first love.

 

It's actually quiet hard even after a few years, some how that first love is a bit more special than the others.......

 

no, it's a first love for a reason.. i still have not forgotten my first love.. it was my first taste of being loved.

 

how can you tell if it was love or lust? both are strong feelings

 

It's hard to have both Love and Lust..often times you either lacking one or the other. When you love someone you don't necessarily lust for them unfortunately =/

 

if we can delete thinks out of our memory then we can forget..

 

Its less about being unable to forget the first love, and more about being able to getting over that relationship. Personally I have little to no recollect of the experiences I've had with my 'first love', it deteriorates with time I guess. And everyone moves on .

 

no you cant not

 

still love her...

 

You will never forget that person, but you will forget that feeling as times goes by.

 

我的first love 跟我一起十多年了，還是那麽sweet, 怎麽能忘記呢？！

 

Hmmm.... Good question. I don't think you can ever forget that particular person but as time goes by so does the feelings. You just end up not having that kinda of bf/gf feeling towards them. I guess its normal to reminisce sometimes... but it's unhealthy to linger on them.

 

It depends on whether you are the one that break it up or that she breaks it up.

 

what exactly is the "first love"? is it the first person you have loved or the first person you have loved the most? if it is the first person i have "loved" then yes because it turned out that it wasnt love at all but if it was the first person i loved the most then no.... they will always be in the back of my mind and although some people will think this is a bad thing but to me its not. memories cannot be erased i mean as long as i dont act on them then its not bad is it? and its not as if i intentionally think of them... i mean you can do something and it would just remind me of them