Can't get over this pain

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by xtnedatx, Nov 9, 2007.

  1. drsnoopy

    drsnoopy Well-Known Member

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    can you write a book about it? Or a screenplay it sounds soo juicy....gross, and cruel intentions like...but disguisting. If you did it right, you might make money. lol. but in all seriousness....not cool.
     
  2. BigC

    BigC Well-Known Member

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    Here's the thing, because you did not break up with him, he has an excuse to hang out with his "sister". When he goes to Cali he can hang out with her anytime, when he is in Maryland he can invite his "sister" to stay at his house whenever he wants to. To me it does sound pretty disgusting even though they are not blood related. It sounds like some time of Asian Drama or Marmalade boy or something. Well I think they are both immature and they both have a free pass with hanging out with their "sibling" whenever they want to and if she has a boyfriend he probably doesn't know anything about it. It will hurt you to leave him and it is always painful to cut off something close to you. Your boyfriend is like cancer, you can live with it for a little while but if you don't cut it off it will consume you. I am not trying to be mean but as of right now he knows that he has you on lock and that you will forgive him for whatever he does. It's up to you what you want to do but realize that you are putting yourself in a predicament.
     
  3. frostshards

    frostshards Well-Known Member

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    or devil beside you
     
  4. nunubutt

    nunubutt Well-Known Member

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    thought i'd like to point out. step sister is just some legal term. they're as close as random people on the street.
     
  5. vintage

    vintage Well-Known Member

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    I'd dump his ass. Its over, break off all contacts with him. Take a cardboard box, put all the pictures of you two, everything. Put it in the box. Tape it up and put it in the basement.
     
  6. zippyw8

    zippyw8 Well-Known Member

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    trust is one of the hardest thing to recover.

    if you continue to feel insecure your relationship won't be healthy and eventually will break. either you suck it up, accept the fact he cheated on you, move on, or move on without him. either way, move on.