Cheating!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Sep 22, 2006.

  1. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Haha, you got me there. I probably think about it every time a drop dead gorgeous woman walks by, but that thought evaporates once she's out of my line of vision ;)
     
  2. haha... n can u dare say when u have erotic fantasies u picture ur woman in them??
     
  3. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Definitely, where do you think I get my ideas in bed? Hahaha.
     
  4. thought u'd b imagining ur favourite DIVA member instead of ur woman... -whistle
     
  5. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    Haha, it's a mixed bag. Gotta change it around to keep things fresh *wink wink* One day DIVA, one day wife, one day hot blonde ...
     
  6. haha... that's the point i was trying to make :p
     
  7. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    My philosophy has always been "see see no touch!" It's OK to look at, and even to flirt with another girl as long as I don't touch her :D

    I know my wife looks at other guys when we go out, and she has to talk to many guys at work; Sometimes even flirt to get things done....but at the end of the day, she comes home to me, and I to her ;)
     
  8. well u drew ur line pretty high.... some ppl reckon "touch but not attached".... they think it's ok as long as they r not emotionally attached to another chick....:(
     
  9. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    I'm a very fair person, and live by the golden rule "do unto others as you would want done unto you"

    The way I see it is, it's all right for me to interact with other women to the extent that I would be comfortable for my wife to interact with other men.

    For those guys out there who feel they can get away with cheating because they are not emotionally attached, then they can't complain when their significant other has sex with other men, using the same excuse to get away with it.
     
    #29 ribsandbbqbeef, Sep 27, 2006
    Last edited: Sep 28, 2006
  10. Vend

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    That's how this world runs around. We all cheat, we all lie and we all live with it....only those who are strong enough. :)
     
  11. babyyjuju

    babyyjuju Well-Known Member

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    cheat on me? fuck outta here.
     
  12. bubs132

    bubs132 Well-Known Member

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    guys can fool around as much as they want when you're not married. Once you're married, it's a commitment you are willing to take, therefore, cheating is not acceptable. It also depends on the circumstances. Were they drunk? Were they lonely? Were they just being an ass?
     
  13. mingming2006

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    hav some fuking fun now, but commit later...=D - but i doubt ill ever be that knda person - hu plays around like Joey
     
  14. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    i used 2 n stil hav this idea, how cheating before marrige is better than cheatin within marrige - ...cos then ur whole marrige would collapse - n it wud be worser if ya had children on the way or now...but then it is the conscience that gets ppls to admit themselves...there a thread about if ppl cheat within a marrige - they can be 4given somehow already?
     
  15. dannyjai

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    mms i believe some men do cheat and some men dont...
    but the factor is...some men cheats and gets caught while others do cheat and doesnt get caught
     
  16. platinumdrops

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    it was funny what everyone has come up with. i don't agree with it personally and the guy is so in the wrong. if it was me, i would not forgive him because if he does it once, he can do it again. i was reading this with a friend and this is what she wanted to say:
    *that man cannot be forgiven and the woman along with him too. all i can say is no no no. go to hell. i've seen enough of it around me to last a lifetime... hai~*
    her reaction seems somewhat more stronger than mine...
     
  17. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    the only cheatin I ever did is in school. :D
     
  18. Bboy_Burst

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    Its True That Most Men Cheat, But Not All Of Them.
    Some Women Cheat, But Most Of Them Don't.

    There Are So Many Reasons Why Couples Cheat On Each Other.
     
  19. chariot28

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    Answer to Second Question:
    There are always two sides to a story. Similarly, there are loads of reasons for cheating but they can be categorised into two groups:

    The first group are the selfish reasons: ego, power, excitement, curiosity, status, etc.
    The next group are the realationship reasons, i.e. something's wrong with the relationship!

    Answer to first Question
    A little twist to the question. What would the PA men do if their women cheated on them and then wanted to get back together?

    For me, I'm not sure, but I'd need answers to several questions before I take action:

    1. Do I love her still? If Yes go to question 2.

    2. She's humiliated me with her cheating. Can she come up with a way to restore my pride? If yes, go to 3.

    3. She's betrayed me. Can she come up with a way to convince me that she really loves me and regain my trust?

    If somehow she manages to make the answer to all three questions as yes, then I'll look into why she cheated and see if we could work it out. Otherwise, let the massacre begin! -evil
     
  20. da1nonlythun

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    I agree with you totally! then get get caught and you beat em' up!