hmm I don't think I ever really start with a topic in mind if I'm talking to someone with the people that I actually have meaningful conversations with, it just starts off talking about random stuff and then suddenly it turns into this really interesting conversation I don't think the conversation should be planned out or forced, or else it doesn't seem you guys would have a lot to talk about if you two ever hook up
when me and my girl was talking on the phone b4, we talk about ramdom stuff. like other ppl, about eachother, how the day went, anything interesting that happened, some sexual stuff, etc.... when i was out of state, our conversations would usually last for 2 hrs and one nite it was 5 hrs
Why gossip about other people? It makes you look insecure. Why not say good things about people and bring them up? Act indifferent to this girl that you like. Be fun, be playful, tease her a bit, keep things light. Once she starts laughing, then you two can talk about more personal things. Share some things about yourself, and don't do all the talking. Ask her some things about herself. Build some comfort, then go for her number.
yea what angie said pretty much hits the spot... if you DO like her to that extent you can be yourself, just talk to her asthough shes like your mates or are mates w.e. things come naturally that way. and yes silence can be a good thing for some =) good luck tiger x]
