Dating Advice: what should I do

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by drsnoopy, May 30, 2007.

  1. ironkain

    ironkain Member

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    Don't be pressed for time. Girls need to consider your proposal before agreeing. If she really likes u, you'll see in very short time.
     
  2. kennyxiao88@hotmail.com

    kennyxiao88@hotmail.com Well-Known Member

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    Well she already said yes! so I think that's better than a no...But if you don't get a call back..ur single!
     
  3. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    Probably she is bz?but if she uses the same excuse too much,then u back off...
     
  4. surplusletterbox

    surplusletterbox Well-Known Member

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    Any further development? There is no chemistry between you two now and unless there are things drawing you two together mutually, you will be wasting your expectation.The key thing is the heart beat at first sight and the short breaths but has to be mutual!
     
  5. mszcyndie

    mszcyndie Well-Known Member

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    hmm.. that's hard cause none of us knows how the other girl is ;x maybe she really doesn't know her schedule
     
  6. Invasion

    Invasion New Member

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    ah! how long have u known her for?
    and how did u ask her out? it's really is very important! (I know, i'm a girl ;))

    ok, I'm not trying to think highly of myself but there's a couple things I know.
    You know how people say 'your not my type' well that may be true, but if you seriously love her, then right now this is what you should do:

    1.)how she previously tried to avoid going out on a date with you e.g. convos .... DON'T try to push her into going through any previous things you have said like 'what happened' or make her feel you are trying to create an opportunity to be more than just friends. It's great that both of you are still friends- so there's still a good chance you can be with her.

    2.)Be passive/cool about what happened previously, but talk about it only when she brings it up.

    I think the fact she said she needs to check her schedule, means she's interested but doesn't want to be seen 'easy' and seriously!, do people actually have to check their schedule to go out with someone they like? NO! and if she didn't like you, then she would have said -No.

    If I didn't want to go out with someone I'd avoid it by saying something like 'Yeah sure! any day' :p and say 'when?' and let the guy go blah date and say 'oh wait, that's when I'm going out with my no. 3 date ' and then wink and smile and the guy laughs and leaves.
    or alternatively say 'yeah sure!... but then I'd have to kill you' smile and wink ... it always works ;P
    That way it's not a no, but obviously not a yes and plus the humor lightens it with a smile.

    About the 'your not my type' over used phrase - it's not true, you can actually make adjustments to change it.

    Right now I think you should just try to act normal.

    More advices later ;P