cue cards to review over.. obviously not read them or let your date know your so cheesy lol HAha it's funny my date once said i was cheesy before.
the problem with most females is that they say they want a nice guy but there so attracted to ahh "A=holes" so what i find is you must test the field. you can't give them the world you must hold back and see if she show any interest. if the gurl know your chasing her and then all of the sudden you stop they will wonder and may work to you advantage.
Well bein yourself is best, but these days you need to impress and show how much your into dates and relationships. For examples, research through the conversation you have with her/him before the date. Don't be just a listener, share some moments you had about yourself. Tell the truth, even if it's about this being nervous and uncomfortable on a first date...
i don't think you wanna mention stuff that's about you on your first date. you tell them a lil but not even detailed about anything.. to get a girl chase you put some on her tongue and you have to pull away. if you start telling her about your past she's forsure know your interested. and when your she sees yoru cards the games over. she knows exactly how to play. the dating stage is all about the mental state....keep things spontaneous is usually the key. Keep her guessing that'll make things not even close to bordem
Impressing the girl is the WRONG way to go. There's a reason why the girls like the "A Holes" as described before. Girls don't want someone to cater to them and they are very into guys that they can't figure out (mysterious). If you're out with a hot girl, the best thing to do is to have a very laid back and carefree attitude (so do what YOU want, not what SHE wants), never give her a straight answer, and TEASE TEASE TEASE. Be the stereotypical man, not the stereotypical wuss. No matter how hot she is, there's no need to compliment her, every other guy she's been out with has done that, emphasize on the teasing instead. She'd be pleasently surprised at how different you are from other guys (which keeps her interested). Don't "share moments you had about yourself", you want the girl to not be able to figure you out. The more confused they are about you, they more they will want to know more about you. Telling the truth even if it's uncomfortable? That's crazy talk! Never make yourself uncomfortable, it makes you look weak. If the girl asks you "So how many girlfriends have you had?", move in a littler closer and stare right into her eyes for 4 or 5 seconds so that SHE feels awkward for asking that question. Now answer with some rediculous answer like five hundred or say you have lots of female friends. They'll know you're teasing them, and the awkward phase earlier will make her hesistate about asking those questions again. Never make yourself uncomfortable, you as the man, need to make them feel like a little girl that doesn't know any better.
