Er... Negigboyz was only kidding; sometimes his tongue in cheek is way over the top and he sometimes says outlandish, draconian things to make a verbal splash. However, if you're saying that you actually did genuinely consider punching out (suicide) over this girl...? Then listen here Nichiren, you got some serious emotional issues. I would suggest that you seek professional help. No amount of back slapping or kick in the pants pep talk in a public forum is going to solve this. It's a fine line between emotional distress and disorder, and your comment above is worrisome that that line is being blurred... Take care.
i dont understand why ppl go all suicidal when their like a teenager.... is there nothing else in ur life that can bring ur joy?? *shrugs* sucks to be u... i guess
Ignore Negigboyz advice, his advice is always suicide... Your gf left you, go suicide. Your pet died, go suicide. Lose your wallet, go suicide. Your 360 got a red ring, go suicide. Your car got a scratch, go suicide. You've got a swollen nose, go suicide. >_>"
back from work still alive, sorry to disappoint. plz stop talking about sucicide, its not healthy thinking. oh yeah i tried going to a club, got drunk and got into a fight ended up in hospital 4 hours not doing that for a while. i am find btw just cut my hand.any more advices welcomed.
^MAN UP!!!!!!!!!!!! feeling sorry for urself or cry n whine abt why it didnt work out doesnt help u at allll.....!! dont do stupid things u will regret later n dont be dumb n fight when ur drunk...
Of course, I didn't mean what I said .. you have to be stupid to think so ... I was just making a point. I can understand if it's a gal who made this post but for a guy, this is serious stuffs. Guys usually don't feel much after breakup and when they do, it's not something that goes away easily. For a kid your age who got kicked to the curb the first time and don't know how to deal with your emotions, you're like a baby who needs guidance. Like Ralph mentioned above, you should seek professional help. You should know that people enter in and out of relationship fairly often in our lives. No matter what happened, people grow and mature from these experiences. You shouldn't let one relationship determine the course of your fate by venting out and doing pathetic stuffs that just might end up hurting yourself and people you love like your family. Again, seek help. Time will be your best dose of medicine but without proper counsel, I am afraid you will continue to dwell on your past and not move toward the right direction. Your action speaks for itself.
Dude didn't one of my advice was don't get drunk! Don't! Apparently you'll remember more about it than forgetting about it... btw did you get a swollen nose?
that is rough man. my gf of 4 year just left me and she's like i wanted to be more independent and etc. then i see her with another guy. so that hurts. over time u will get over it. try hitting up the gym everyday. go chill with friends and drink chill.
she said the same to me but she also tells me she like other guys so its a matter of time but not sure if i could deal with seeing her others yet, i am sure i will get over her when i meet someone else but thats not the point, cos thats not what i want. u know?
i suck with advice but here are some quotes (not written by me) that i used to write on my friends books... "As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back." "I've learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be." but yeh...nichiren, i hope one day you appreciate life. it's a great gift. a lot of us are lucky to live with freedom. whilst others who want to live longer can't or have no freedom like us. over the years i'm trying to live with no regrets.. whatever big or small good or bad things happen.... i try to accept it..even if it's hard... okok i know it's easier said than done.. but.. yeh.. if you love her sooo much then ok.. maybe you should wait and hope for a miracle.. buteven if this door remains closed.. theres always another door to open.
wow .. 10 years .. you're 26 y/o .. man .. i expect a lot more from you than this .. a cry baby. you're a man and should act like one. i thought you're some 14-16 years old kid .. omfg .. get a hold of yourself.
10 years relationship. hard to take indeed but whats happened has happened, move on and dont look back
thanks for all the advice even the silly ones, i know now to never begin a relationship base on helping someone and if i find a girl who onlys remember the bad times the arguements and just live in the past and cant forget it (i will run away fast like forrest gump).after spending a long time with someone who you love and care about and losing them, it doesn t matter how old you are it will still hurt but i hope that on nobody take care you all. There are three kinds of people; those that make things happen, those that watch things happen and those who don't know what's happening.
true .. whenever you lose someone .. you're still hurt regardless of your age. however, being 26 years old, one has gained enough life experience to somewhat know how to handle his/her emotions properly. when s/he doesn't, s/he knows to seek help. i know guys hurt more cuz they can't talk it out with their buddies unlike that of gals who can just blab everything out.
