Desperately seeking answers

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by nichiren, Feb 24, 2009.

  1. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    :finey:
     
  2. wysandman

    wysandman Well-Known Member

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    you should date one of her friends to piss her off.
     
  3. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    why bother .. he should just let things go and move on ... no point of getting revenge or anything .. it's normal to break up when things don't work out in a relationship.
     
  4. Flames

    Flames Out of Date User

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    :finey: You too aoes
     
  5. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    ^hey... i don't fail all the time :rolleyes:
     
  6. dkamho

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    At the start things will be diff but try to keep yourself occupied either with work or mates. Then think back about all the terrible habits/tempers she has that you have had to put with. Now the chances of meeting someone else that you don't have to put up with so many things you hate...
     
  7. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    I don't want to be a douche bag, but it's just funny to me when someone post these situation on a PA forum...
    (if there was a groan, I know I'll be there for sure)
     
  8. nichiren

    nichiren Member

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    sometime you just cant help who u fall n love with and sometimes u just love the wrong person i am dealing with it by bettering myself and thats all i can do
     
  9. chailing

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    ermm.. time will heal..
    anyhow it depends on individual on how long it takes..

    meanwhile..try to indulge urself in other activities or hang ard more with frens.. enlarge ur circles of fren.. tat will be a help..

    in other hand.. try persuading urself to let go.. n get involve in new relations.. tat's the fatest cure..

    good luck..
     
  10. Ritsuten

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    +1

    and don't do anything to harm yourself in any way.
    eg. cutting yourself, sleeping pills, drinking, driving over speed limit.
    your life is too precious and valuable to be taken for granted like that. if she doesn't want you it's her loss.
    use this time to ''update yourself'' and ''upgrade yourself'' :D

    there will be better girls coming your way. just prepare for it. maybe after some time your ex will want to come back to you, and you'll be alot different from now so maybe by then you might not even want to be with her.

    and lastly your life and body belongs not only to you, but your parents as well. no matter how sad/down you are, think about your parents. never hurt yourself over anyone, because your parents will feel pain as well. ;)
     
  11. nichiren

    nichiren Member

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    i have realise today that
    i must let her go have her life and for me to get on with my life
     
  12. S.N.Gaara

    S.N.Gaara Well-Known Member

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    so much hate in this thread lol.. where's the love? .... not with nichiren haha jk jk
     
  13. nichiren

    nichiren Member

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    no love here right now, but coming soon though.
     
  14. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    how's things going for you man? any better?
     
  15. nichiren

    nichiren Member

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    i am coming to terms with it, thanks
     
  16. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    thats good man..
     
  17. nichiren

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    i think it might take me a few years to get over her though.i feel like its been such a waste especially because we hwve both since learn to improve our mistake, only thing is she says its too late now, its like why did we have badtimes together and when we improve it is not for us to enjoy but we have to enjoy this with someone else.i want to give the new and improve me to her and i know i am not the same cos i know what i lost and have lost most of my bad habbits. too late i guess or maybe not? tbc
     
  18. hiddendragon

    hiddendragon Active Member

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    its bound to hurt, best thing is to gt things to do like go out with ur mates and have fun.
     
  19. distrikt

    distrikt Active Member

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    wow..
    that's a decade
    what was her reason?