First to say... I dun live with him... but I dun really care if he comes home dirty... it's part of his (and your) work rite? my boiii is even cleaner than I am... first thing he does when coming home is showering. When going out for dinner after his work (with or without friends)... he wants to go home first before going. But... don't u think a shower is best therapy for feeling dying? About washing the clothes.... that's why we've got washing machines rite? And about what he earns.... he gets €800 a month or something like that... depends on how much he worked that month. But that's because he hasnt finished his study yet. And he's working 4 days a week.
nah, showering doesnt help me at all. it jsut feels cleaner and fresher. the first thing i do is lie on the hard couch that i got....it feel so good that when i close my eyes to rest, i tends to fall asleep for like an hr or 2. washing machines.......we dont have that in the house. we go out and get it clean...it's actually hardwork, going back and forth.....i kno, because when my girl is extremely busy wit her shits, i would volunteer and get the clothes clean. 4 days a week.....tat's not bad.
it's not so much yet since he hasnt finished study yet. would/could be more if he has. but yeah... i think your gf knows how u are... and she'll try to make it as comfortable for you as she could. i'm just lucky that my bf is clean himself... xD i just know showering is the first he's doing after coming home washing machines are must haves in houses here in holland... coz there arent many cleaning stores outside. anywaysz... have u ever talked to your girl about how you're thinking about this issue? and asking what she feels?
so is it implied that an average looking asian doctor-to-be will score the most desirable girl? ie. nice personality and looks..
o, he's still in skool. yea, if he get a degree or something, he'll definitely earn way more than me. na, i never talk wit this wit her. i, honestly, aint good at talking at all. because im scare that ill say the wrong words and get her to speak the truth.....or something..lol. but regardless, i do think i need to wash myself after work..lol. although it doesnt seems like it, but she is getting angry. i meant, she likes to be clean. When ever she sees my clothes on the sofa or floor, she'll ask me to go pick it up and drop it on the basket....even when im outside in the garage doing work, she'll go all the way out and ask me to get in and clean my shits up......it's kinda annoying.....lol. yea, i gotta agree. usually, these asian dudes gets the girls wit both looks and personalities......but hey, in alot of cases, tat's not true. Im happy wit mine (...and im not a doctor to-be nor am i rich) and to me, my girl is the most prettiest thing. but it's in a guy's blood to look at other good looking girls......lol.
hahahahah same for girls... though... i like watching other guys hahahaha. if he may do it... why shouldnt I rite? i understand what she's saying yeahh... you should be a bit cleaner i guess... your work is no excuse for not cleaning/picking up your stuff
i don't care... i make enough. and if she makes more then hey, nothing wrong with more money =). sugarmama works fine with me.
alot of guys don't mind if their girl makes more money than them. It really depends on how strong the relationship is between the two are.
If they both were mature then its not a worry about to think. Be friendly. But If she takes advantage of her job then its very bad about your relationship. Its not bad If your girl friend or wife get money more than you.
for me, i dont care or dont mind if my guy earns less than me.. in reference to j6ho's comment, i'm in it for love so money doesnt mean much.. if we have enough to live comfortably then i think there's no need to see who earns more n make a big deal out of it..
Hello, I'm new on here.. just thought I'd add my comment on this. I dont think it matters in this day and age now. Women are becoming more career minded and aiming high up the ladder. I think the girls that do care are just materialistic.. these days us girls can make our own living and buy the things we want ourselves rather than relying on the bf/husband. I think as long as the bf/hubbie is on a reasonable salary and dont have to ask you for money then its ok.
Yes. Unfortunately sometimes it is that way. Unless the girl doesnt have to work for her money, in which case she may have the freedom to just look at it as LOVE.
it's neither. But it's about the pride that i have. I dunno about u, but i do feel that i lost my pride when i earn less than my girl sometimes. i meant, a guy is the one that suppose to look after a girl (in terms of finance, not other things). girls can just relax and reproduce........ maybe im just too old minded. but tat's just me.
i'm a girl and I don't mind. I actually make a lot more money than my fiance. If he was not working and he depend on me financially, then I would mind. But he's independent and manages his own money well so it's no problem at all.
i got too much pride i guess. i prefer the one to be earning more and i think the girl wouldn't want to pay for dinner all the time right? where's the value in men.
i guess i wud want the guy to be more financially stable than i am....i am kinda old fashioned >.< but if i were working and earning a bit more than my guy would, then its not too bad as long as they dont rely on me.... i like a guy who can wine and dine me, but im fair, i like treating my guy too, makes them feel special....but, no guy to treat yet, soooo more money for shopping kekeke
lol it doesnt really matter as long your girl doesnt care about it to much... money isnt always everything in a relationship
