The worst thing is, if someones cryin the first thing to say is...are u ok? Or whats the matter etc.... but it just makes it worse!!! >.<"
I know. It's like... Of course I'm not ok! I'm crying! But when someone goes, what's wrong what's wrong, tell me, what's wrong and you try talking about it... yeah, it make it worse.
It happens all the time! When ppl ask me, half of me wans to open my mouth and say it then the other half makes me cry 10x worse! >.<" One time, I was holdin it in and it was workin but I wasnt sayin much and obviously looked really down...and my fren kept askin me if I was alright to I just nodded...then she bloody started shakin me, messing around tryna make me dance and then I just broke down in tears! Lookin back is pretty funny, coz she was like wtf..but yeah! The moral of the story is Dun shake ppl when they look upset!! Grrr!!
Ah that's true. When you see someone crying or sad, the first thing you're gonna say is, "Are you ok?" "What's wrong?" no one has every shaken me before when I was crying...
*ahem* Coz we was in the common room and music was on so she was tryna get me to dance! Crazy women! But yeh! This is a BAD idea!! Do NOT try it
Its like at the top of the list of what NOT to do when someones upset! So.....what suggestions do ya have for cheerin someone up without makin it worse?
^ well to cheer me up, just hanging out with friends. Taking my mind of whatever I was upset about, helps. ^^ You should like... start listening to music. Or chocolate... lol.
This might sound stooopid but, when I'm upset I listen to sad songs (talk about make it worse) but yeh! LoL! Not a good idea but I cant help it >.<"
Really? It makes it worse. I remember one time I was really upset, and I was watching this movie... it was only a little sad, but I was crying like crazy. lol. When I sleep, the next morning, I look in the mirror, and my eyes are so puffy. lol.
One time I cried like 10x in one day, no lie! >.<" My eyes were so sore! My bin was over flowin with tissue! LoL! But yeh, sometimes its good to cry, it makes u feel so much better afterwards! Do u pig out when ur sad?
Yeah... I've done that too... ugh... You're just thinking, "How can I still be crying??????" You think you've cried yourself out... but nope! Still got some in ya. lol. Yeah... I've pigged out when I'm sad. And bored... and angry... and happy... lol. =P