Do you ever get over your first true love?!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by t20lau, Dec 15, 2008.

  1. Sunnywootxp

    Sunnywootxp Member

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    one word no -____- haha
     
  2. rainbow_love

    rainbow_love Member

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    I think that you can accept that your not with them or "in love" with them anymore, but they'll always have that special place in your heart... I mean how many first's do you get in a lifetime?
     
  3. yoshiex

    yoshiex Member

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    The first thing is u have to release but the first love will always be something special because u experienced everthing for the first time
     
  4. fattsoo

    fattsoo Active Member

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    Still have a special place in my heart...hurts a little everytime I think about us
     
  5. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    I can say I have a lot of first's... first love, first steps, first kiss, first blabla... sooo...dont think my first love was really that special... no prob with being friends with any of my exes... all are exes... sooo... all are my past :D
     
  6. midnightzt

    midnightzt Member

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    honest no, still there in my mind, but im single right now, i tend to have a bad habit of remembrance the past, never thought about my future gf or anything like that.
     
  7. linnetje007

    linnetje007 Active Member

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    yes ofcourse, its just a matter of time. By not thinking about him/her will definitely help you to forget it.
     
  8. aznacurarsx

    aznacurarsx Active Member

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    lolz got over it an hours later lolz.. don't know why i got over it that fast lolz maybe because i want' really into the relationship.. sigh bad me hahaha
     
  9. Nexix

    Nexix Member

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    you eventually will get over it but there are always memories that will stay with you
     
  10. babygoofy

    babygoofy Member

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    it's not easy.. but it is a stage that almost everyone do go through
     
  11. TEDDYRUKSPIN

    TEDDYRUKSPIN Member

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    Answer is definitely yes! You will blank the person eventually as the new one in front of you is always the best! Obviously.
     
  12. sjammie

    sjammie Member

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    My first love have a special place in my heart... even if i try to delete it, it's impossible for me...
     
  13. I think it is hard to forget your first love but i am sure you can find someone else even though your first love has many qualities that the 2nd or 3rd guy doesnt.
     
  14. ingwen

    ingwen Member

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    I guess i never got over mine ........
     
  15. lildeity

    lildeity Member

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    gotten over my first but he will always have that special spot in my heart.. we only went out for 2 1/2 weeks but it was so strong.. we're still friends, very close friends too
     
  16. yawnzie

    yawnzie Member

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    I quite agree with ggbggmoi that we will remember our first love as that is where it plays a part of your life to who you become today?
    hehe
     
  17. twinklystar129

    twinklystar129 New Member

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    Get over it: yes
    Special place: always. You will always think back to your first love, and wonder the "what if" question. Even if you get into a new relationship and is living happily, you still can't help but wonder "what if it was with ____, the one that taught you and showed you how deep you can love?"

    At least, it's a question I always think about occasionally... yeah... I got over it and don't love him anymore but I don't think I can ever forget someone that once meant so much in my life.
     
  18. Eloi

    Eloi Member

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    First love to most people are like big step forward since it is their first relationship with the opposite sex. Obviously a set back as big as that tend to make people brood over a lot more than subsequent one.
     
  19. xiaozhuzhu

    xiaozhuzhu Active Member

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    Yes I got over my first love with the help of lots of time.
     
  20. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    I don't believe anyone can forget about their first love. I don't know if I consider mine as my first love since I was so young. When you're young, you get away with so many things. Nothing seems to matter, not even your family; almost seems like one gives one's all for love, but now that we're older, many things matter. That is why young love is so unique; therefore, I'm not even sure if my first love is considered my "first love" cause it seems so unreal at the same time.