Do you ever talk to your current bf/gf about your exes?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by stardust, Aug 9, 2006.

  1. Vend

    Vend Well-Known Member

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    your current bf may be your future husband so it's best to tell almost everything. You never know what will happen tomorrow. Vice-versa to gf.

    I think in a relationship that sharing of information (in this case) is the best part of communication...oh and also understanding. Yes, understanding....Do you understand?
     
  2. babyyjuju

    babyyjuju Well-Known Member

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    lols i tell them everything. i wuldnt want them to like guess or make something up or hear rumors about me that aint true. so why not just say what i gotta say? lols
     
  3. jet

    jet Member

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    no, sometimes i open my mouth intending to, but i'll change my mind straight away. it's never a good idea.
     
  4. bitterswtz

    bitterswtz Member

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    Yes. It's good to be open in a relationship. If you can talk about anything.. including past relationships.. then the relationship is very good. If they ask, tell them! However, there is no need to bash your ex's (looks bad on your behalf) or bring up things intensionally to make your current partner jealous.
     
  5. joannang

    joannang Active Member

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    it does get kind of uncomfortable
     
  6. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    Arggg. Don't do it, or else they will always bring it up...
     
  7. subx0va

    subx0va Member

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    i dont lik to bring up the past but if they ask then ill tell but only wut is necessary to answer their questions
     
  8. sirena

    sirena Active Member

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    i think new relationships should have some kind of idea of the exs. I don't know about anyone else, I sure don't want to date someone with the same bad habits as my ex, after all those bad habits could be what contributed to the break up. so if the current bf knows that you don't like him doing certain things, then he could avoid doing those habits. in my personal opinion, I think that being able to talk bout it means that you've accepted it and you're ok with it, and if that is the case, it doesn't matter whether you talk bout it or not.
     
  9. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    hell no!!! hahahaah.... the less they know the better!!!.. the most ill do is point em out if im with my girl n i see my ex or give my ex a hug........ however my answer if my girl does ask about my ex is "why does it matter im with u now not her" :) done well for me
     
  10. voxov

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    it definitely is ok to talk about past r/s. however.. please do so in a tactful way... not in a way such as to compare both of them.. and if any comparison has to be made.. it surely is better to make the current one stand out.. so at least he/she will feel good about himself/herself.
    and a taboo thing to talk about past r/s is surely past sexual relationships.. this must be kept to yourself.. and just make him/her feel like a king/queen. wad happened before is not impt at all!.. tsktsk..
     
  11. thanislim

    thanislim Active Member

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    Words of wisdom: DO NOT mention your ex much to your current gf/bf.
     
  12. xxsweetheartxx

    xxsweetheartxx Well-Known Member

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    I know, my bf tends to wanna know about how I was with my exes, but then after he finds out, he gets kinda depress.. and starts thinking maybe I liked my exes more than I like him now.. isn't that kinda weird? why ask me in the first place if it's just get you sad? I don't understand!