Do you mind your partner have sex with ur friend?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by adorable_sky_dazzling, Aug 10, 2007.

  1. auta

    auta Well-Known Member

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    i kinda mind tbh...just cant accept that someone else got it with them before i did sort of thing.
     
  2. zippyw8

    zippyw8 Well-Known Member

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    if you are human, it's natural, nobody likes seconds.

    however, if you like him/her enough, you will look past that.
     
  3. bacchus

    bacchus New Member

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    is a no no for me, i cant take it, seriously i will break wif my gf , if she do it to me...-sweat
     
  4. freeminded

    freeminded Well-Known Member

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    Unless the guy is a very reasonable person, I guess the boy will probably mind that his gf have sex before. As much as the guy loves her, I think deep down the guy will still be a bit bothered by it. But if the guy really loves her, then he will probably not show it even if he does say he does not mind.
     
  5. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    man i seriously don't care...but yeah i would never hoook up with my mates ex in the first place

    but other than that i don't mind if my gf has had sex with her ex partners before, doesn't bother me. If guys are allowed to have sex with more than 1 girl...why can't girls? I don't know why people have the perception that just because their gf are not virgins, they automatically feel that they are "used". It kinda annoys me actually.
     
  6. j0sephine

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    nobody likes to know their bf/gf has been with their friend before.

    she dont have to mention it unless the guy asks her.
    but i guess most probably the guy already knew.
     
  7. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    I never try to know about the past relationships of my present girl friend . I never mind if my prescnt girl friend has relationships with other in the past.Every one has the right to live his/her own life.
     
  8. AViolet07

    AViolet07 Well-Known Member

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    Yes, I've date my friend ex before too ... and i'll said that i'll not mind coz i've expected that having sex are too common in relationship in this century ...

    so i'll never ask about the past, but if she's going to say it, it'll juz listen ... u can't change history rite?
     
  9. MunMun

    MunMun Well-Known Member

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    she shouldnt tell him about her past relationships. has nothing to do with him but i wouldnt go out with any of my ex's friends
     
  10. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol Wow, Ur parter has sex with ur friends o,o so disloyal, i mean such friends =P , lol Dump him/her, if they have sex with anyone but you , could get STD lol
     
  11. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    not if u've used protection and u use protection, that will reduce the chance of getting an std. whats this got to do with ur partner having sex with ur friend. there is the same chance with anybody who's done it before. lol.
     
  12. toshina

    toshina Member

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    What is the whole point of a relationship and commitment if one person can go have some fun with the other's friend?
     
  13. hell yeah, i mean i should know before i even go out with her, and she would be done if she even cheated on me, these things are a must to know >___<
     
  14. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    honestly, she doesn't have to say anything...
    as long as her bf knows that they went out before, that's fine... if he ask then she can tell, otherwise i wouldn't bring it up.
     
  15. linnetje007

    linnetje007 Active Member

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    I do mind and I even thinks it's disrespectful of my friend to have sex with my partner
     
  16. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    well upon reflection of this question, it does depend on the situation which u have been put upon. basically if it happened after an argument and both got drunk in a rough time then it could be forgiveable. also, if u were married with ur partner and perhaps had a child and sleeping with ur friend was a mistake after a drunken night then that should def be forgiven as they are a lot more devastating effects which could happen if u break up for the child. it all depends upon the situation and ur willingness to forgive also whilst weighing up problems which could happen as a result of the break up.
     
  17. Espresso Bunny

    Espresso Bunny Well-Known Member

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    TRASH !!!!!!!!!
     
  18. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    lol, i know the answer is so obvious for that. it's a question which doesn't need to be asked.
     
  19. fidelis7119

    fidelis7119 Well-Known Member

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    huh.....i would mind if my exboyfriend sleeps with my friend....it's kind of like a silent competition thing if he sleeps with both you and your friend..like hwo's better? hahaha does it makes snese to anyone here besides me??

    anyway....i think she should tell her current boyfriend. I dont think guys woul dmind it as much as girls....then again, i'm a girl...so...yeah
     
  20. karoen

    karoen Well-Known Member

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    well...if they were friends...he prbly already told him...and if not...i think its not such a big deal...it will be really awkward...i have a friend who's in the same situation...and she's still dating that guy...and her bf and ex bf dont talk to each other again....its also because they had a huge fight and stuff...but i think its totally fine to tell him...