i agree with babs, if u have sex when ur both ready then it can heighten ur relationship. if u do it from the beginning then it might well ruin the relationship though it does depend on what relationship ur talking about, cos like a night stand with ur friend prob won't ruin the friendship if ur both drunk and lonely. lol.
hmmm i think it depends tho... if really in love..the sex shud be call as love making... sex sounds so pervert and full of lust..dont u think? hahahahhahahaa still..i think it depends on certain situation n the person themselves.
I agree with babs too...there's never a right time for sex some do it on the first date and are still loved up years after....it all depends on the person if u get with a player then ur prob silly to give in on the first night coz u know it won't last....
lol...sex doesnt sound perverted....when ppl say they wanna have sex it means they just wanna have some physical action going on in a dirty way to feel good love making sounds like its romanticized....so when ppl say they wanna make love they just trying to make it sound nicer
i don't think sex ruins a relationship cause it takes two to decide when to have sex. if one says their not ready then the other should respect that i've been in a relatoinship where it did cause we just wanted sex. i've also been in a relationship where it didn't.
sex early in the relationship more often than not ruins it as it sets the premise from the outset. like others have said before, it would be better to wait until the right time ... unless, of course, you are the type of person that reads from the back of the book just to know the ending -unsure
ye not if both sides want it. there have been sucessful relationship with sex from the start. it depends on the ppl. different ppl work in different ways.
Sex should never ruin a relationship if it does then wow.... its only means intimacy is out the window and there is really no point to continue unless you consider spooning forever and holding each other ever so dearly as a replacement for physical intimacy then YOU ARE JUST CRAZY...... sorry but from a psychological viewpoint sex is indeed needed in all serious relationships that holds any chance with a future... it is every bit mental as it is physical...
How would you know whether or not in a relationship it is time to take it to the next level? I mean, how do people decide when the first time to have sex in a relationship is? Or even just a person's first time?
Whenever you feel mentally and physically ready. Also when you are comfortable with yourself and the other person. It's hard to say... but you will just "know it".
bitterswtz is a pretty smart person. I would say not to rely on sex alone for a relationship... once you have it or get bored then the mystery will be gone and there won't be much left to stand on. If you look for another partner then how long are you planning to keep doing that each time? when you get old not as many people will want you anymore.
if you desire to have sex from your partner it would seem you are seeking sex rather then relation, well i think that what most people would think. 6 month rule about sex.
6 month rule.....? Gosh that seems a quite a long time, but realistically the sex shouldn't come planned... if the moment happens it shouldn't matter how long the time lapse has been... If there was so much passion between you two then I would believe it should be welcomed =D
