Does having sex ruin a relationship?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by dreamere89, Feb 23, 2008.

  1. realazyjai

    realazyjai Well-Known Member

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    too much sex ??? is there such thing ??? :naughty:
     
  2. s0uljae

    s0uljae Well-Known Member

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    i dont think sex would ruin the relationship. especially when both of you agreed to do it. sex should make the relationship even better and exciting.
     
  3. lovinglyxx

    lovinglyxx Well-Known Member

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    depends what you call "too soon".. personally i dont thin it does, because its a matter of sooner or later, but it all depends on the guy/girl and what they're like.
     
  4. DaoMilk

    DaoMilk Active Member

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    if u tink relationship is for sex..might as well find a hooker?sex is a bonus ting..but not too much of it..it will harm e relationship..
     
  5. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    all depends... if you just rushed into it then yes
    otherwise if both you guys really love eachother and dont mind going all the way then go right ahead
     
  6. linnetje007

    linnetje007 Active Member

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    I think sex won't ruin your relationship, I believe it will only contribute to your relationship. Except when you are sharing the same bed on your first date, then your relationship is indeed based on sex which won't last for long.
     
  7. not really, but sometime it does
     
  8. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    I was tempted to say Only if your wife finds out... :spank:

    Ralph
     
  9. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    if ur both looking for a sex buddy relationship then go right ahead..
    IF U and your partner feel ready to start doing intimate things then its ok...
    it just depends on how the both of you feel
     
  10. hahahahahah :nono: ralph you have let your secret slip!!

    Serious relationship without sex means FAILURE =D [unless sex is not possible]
     
  11. DeX

    DeX Member

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    I think it's okay if you realise that you love each other. Make sure both of you know that the relationship is not all about sex. It's really about your feelings for each other.
     
  12. qkchrissy

    qkchrissy Member

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    It all depends how you both feel about it. i mean if it feels right to have sex early then why not... i don't think it ruins a relationship but could actually help build the bond and closeness. If from the start it's a proper relationship and not f-buddies then you there shouldn't be nothing to worry about.

    Usually at the start of a relationship, if you both feel ready to have sex then it should be the greatest time since you both would want to explore and try different things.

    Dont know how some say that too much sex can ruin a relationship - if you're having too much it must mean things are going well and you're both having fun and enjoying it and you have a high sex drive! unless only one of you do then I guess that could be an issue.
     
  13. ipat

    ipat Member

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    I dont understand i always thought sex unites the two people in a relationship thats why theres sex to solve problems. haha im evil =(
     
  14. anitram

    anitram Active Member

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    sex does spice up a relation once in a while, if 2 people are willing to have sex then so be it. i don't feel that having sex will ruin a relationship, it really depends on how they are