Dumpin ur bf/gf for new one?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by TyJac, Nov 3, 2007.

  1. karnage182

    karnage182 Member

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    if u feel attracted to someone else...then its already begun...unless u truly believe u will get over this person
     
  2. ofey

    ofey Active Member

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    Two thoughts:

    a) If it ain't broke, why fix it?

    and

    b) If it's a definite upgrade, go for it!
     
  3. chookie

    chookie Active Member

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    it really depends. if you two are in love, but your bf/gf is treating you badly sometimes, like arguing the most stupid thing like just hugging an opposite sex friend. then there's really a chance that you will be attract to others and dump him
     
  4. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    we are not talking about a pc here, it is about real life. stop using mechanical terms. lol. besides if u rele loved that person u wouldn't go for an upgrade.
     
  5. unleash drag0n

    unleash drag0n Active Member

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    nah i will not dump my gf for a new one is called a player i what a real relationship.
     
  6. bbyally

    bbyally Member

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    for me i would dump them but i would wait a while before i go for another person. sad to say but i was dumped and right after my ex went out with another girl it wasn't even a month after. what the stupidest thing was that he didn't even tell me and i don't know cuz we never went to the same school and we had different friends.
     
  7. unclelooi

    unclelooi Well-Known Member

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    i wont dump the old one bcoz of new one...
     
  8. jli

    jli Well-Known Member

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    i will keep the old one and get with the new one
     
  9. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Next you know is you got none. -lol
     
  10. xstarBURST

    xstarBURST Well-Known Member

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    Depends on the situation.

    but most of the time i wouldnt do it anyways. I'd only dump him once i get tired of him..
     
  11. shinybow

    shinybow Well-Known Member

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    If you dump your g/f or b/f because someone else is more atractive, then he/she is not really your b/f or g/f.
     
  12. cyndy123

    cyndy123 Well-Known Member

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    Depends, but u need to think about how ur gf/bf feels. you don't want them to feel to hurt. Does the person you are attracted likes you?
     
  13. cyndy123

    cyndy123 Well-Known Member

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    Personally i do think It's kinda mean to dump your gf/ bf just because someone is more attractive than your gf/bf. But i guess u don't really like him/her.
     
  14. rockman3

    rockman3 Well-Known Member

    Ethically it is not right to dump your bf/gf but then~ love is blind~~?
     
  15. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Hahaha, the ethical rules doesnt apply to love cuz all is fair in love and war. :p
     
  16. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    I am of a butterfly natured person.So I never be able to stop myself for one girl.I am always looking for more and more.
     
  17. jleeboy

    jleeboy New Member

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    I will never do that, you should be happy with you have and have a connection with
     
  18. monkeylvu

    monkeylvu New Member

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    i thought this was a forum to answer that original question. lost track there huh. i duno why you popped that question but i think it all depends. if ur bf/gf is already treating you good, then of course i should try not to dump him/her. but if you found someone who you noe is better, then of course u gotta do wat u gotta do to have a better future. so this is very situational. gotta weigh it out, whos better for you.
     
  19. alnk

    alnk Well-Known Member

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    applies with me as well.
     
  20. tien317

    tien317 Well-Known Member

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    For now i dont think i would....UNLESS one day one guy can make me so crazily in love with him...haha