i've thought about this question again....and i think that it's not impossible for them to become best friends, but by becoming best friends, it will create problems for future relationships becuase if they are too close then the current bf/gf will get suspicious becuase after all, they haave a history. it's a security problem.
lol yeah its hard to be bestfriends... sometimes the feelings mite come back..especially if one of them are single
yes it is possible to become best friends with ur ex...to the point where u2 are so close that it feels like ur going out again but just without the name bf n gf attached...but then thats also when heartache happens again.. so yeh u can stay friends how close is up to u but best to move on like
weird thing, I been with my ex for nearly 2 years but i don't even talk to her now, but my ex before her which i been with only for like a month, i still talk to her now and again.
it depends on how they broke up..if broke up in a bad way..u tink still can forgibe n forget to be frens? but for my case is different..my ex gf is my fren's gf now..wth! practically..i take her as transparent..
It can be possible but i dont think it really works out because it'll be awkward and your future partners will not understand why your still in touch with your ex let alone be best friends......and if you can be best friends again because they understand you or u feel comfortable around them then why break up?!?!?!?!
it depends on on the reason for break up.... anyway, it's possible to be friend or best friend again, but need to be managed properly... make sure don't mix up the feelings.. or else, u gonna regret it... =)
Living it! It's the bestest thing ever if you find that best friend who's also ur ex. Though you really have to understand each other really well and yes even though you guys use to be ex, it doesn't mean u know each other well. I however knew my ex since about when I was 4. My friends have always been upfront with me about this thing me and my ex have had and it was true but we didn't really notice it until when enough people were saying it. THen you start to think -hey yeah we are pretty in sync with each other and we understand each other in a deeper level. We dated and it was great, but he's not what i had in mind as an ideal bf. We broke up but till now we still have this chemistry going on and cause he had a gf then and i sort of had a bf then, things did get messy. His gf didn't trust him enough and mine, well was a bit jealous of what we had. But we talk about everything. Trust issues can be a drag. I am really lucky to find such a great best friend. Even though I must say, I did have my doubts whether there were times if we were just friends. I tried not to think about it too much and I know he did too. The plus side of having the oppose sex as your best friend: whenever i find a girl-friend she either turns out bitchy or gets envious of stuff, with a guy - it doesn't matter they're mostly upfront. He'll always be on the look out for u and u'll look out for him in a different way. Ex gf or bf can be just friends if they're not ur type.
