K.I.S.S = Keep It Simple Stupid. I always follow that advice. 4 years ago, I used to go out with my ex, once she broke up with me 2 week later she goes up with my one of my best friend. Now were still hanging around, I have my own girlfriend. But my ex and his bf end up most of the time arguing most of the time >.> So yea, life is so big, it is never the end if your partner leave you for someone else the next day.
I haven't been in this part of the forum for a long time now and to my surprise, I saw this thread on the first page. It's be almost 2 years now. I would like to post to anyone who is going through a similar situation "Time Will Make it Fade Away" not completely though. There's going to be a tiny part that lingers, it's just there for you to learn from don't think too much about it, but the feelings will go away, just give it time. [bad_joke]If you're a girl and going though this situation you can always talk to me ^___^;; [/bad_joke] ~Don't give up hope when one leaves you, because there are others waiting to be with you~ Hmmm, what else to say. I'm great, if anyone is curious. Virtual thanks to everyone! Free bubble tea if you ever find me. P.S. [another_bad_joke]Still single, if any cute girl is reading this *wink* *wink*[/another_bad_joke]
maybe you still have some feelings for her but can't be together. let go of the old times and focus on future sure one day you'll meet someone like her.
This is much harder then said and I believe so myself. 'They have the title 'ex-girlfriend' for a reason or many reasons. I hope you remember this. I hope you can find a better tomorrow. The concerns are predictable, but it's a phase. Hang in there.
Do you want her back? The thing is, if she doesn't want you, you want her more. Try talking about women that you're dating with or interested in, to her. -^_^ Hope I helped Please don't write in Chinese. This isn't a Chinese forum. You're limiting your replies by doing that.
Exactly what I wanted to say. Keep your distance from her for a little bit til you get used to it more. Keep yourself occupied with other things or other friends. You don't have to completely cut her out of your life, just add a little distance and spend more time with some of your other friends.
Do the same thing with her buddy . . . Tell her that you are seeing another girl, She will feel it too.
best way to handle that is to STOP TALKING TO HER!~ I know it's hard but really the only way... time can heal any hurt u have and when your not jealous anymore, then call her
I think I know how you feel. I broke up with my ex because it was his decision, I decided to stay friend with him, hoping that we'll get back together. But when I realized that he like one girl after another, my heart aches...In the end, when he finally in a new relationship, he knew I still have feeling for him, he told me directly that he've moved on and not going backward. I guess I really needed him to tell me infront of my face in order for me to wake up. I thought I could just stand by his side and when he needs me I willl be there, but it was hard. I cut contact with him after he told me to move on. I think in your situation, you still have hope that's why you stayed friend with your ex after you broke up with her. But hey, I think you've gone through half way of being heart broken, I am sure you can walk over it. Same to me, although I sometimes still feel that I can't breathe when I think of him, but each time the hurting gets shorter and shorter. It can only get shorter and shorter, trust me=)
SPOT ON! I broke up with my ex after 2 years together we were both heading in different direction so it was mutual agreement. I though you can get over but when you realise she got a new bf the feelin hits you. Its not like I hate her but best way is to cut the connection and space out lol. Unfriend facebook sorted! lol
That goes for guys too, it can be irritating if the girl still likes you and become stalker mode (danger) lol.
I wish I can reformat my brain! Im amazed how much I remember the little things just pop back up like never ending
Of course you might still have feelings for that person but you need to move on.. no use waiting for her... live you life do your own stuff waht was the reason for the break up ??
