its always better to ask... i mean... if u like the girls shes prolly not a horrid person n if shes not.... then even if she doesnt like u, shed @ least b nice about rejecting u.... plus itd make her feel special.... n actually.. some ppl say the more pretty/popular a girl is the less they are asked out because the guys all think that shes got so much choice shell never choose him so they r all afraid to ask
what an old thread.. but im glad to see it. Touching real life story.. thanks for sharing. Its the most obvious thing to do.. yet many find it so difficult to do it.. for fear of rejection
well i guess it depends if its sum1 u like, then sure go for and ask but then theres always cases where u've become close close friends with them, and if they dont' feel the same way, and u've asked... it'll be awkward between u2, and in a way, u woulda lost a friend relationships and feelings are never easy to work out
but sometimes relationship can lead to feelings and feelings can lead to relationship. i never hesitate, grab the chance (coz it was like love at first sight) going strong and happy till now.
Sighhhhhhhh I guess almost every guys has a similar story like this. Let this be a lesson to all the guy (n gals) out there to be brave when pursuing for your true love
aiya, i thought i was reading my OWN diary for a moment there...i was like that a few years back, very very shy, but i think i'm growing out of it after high school (still shy)...but college really helped, i was not that shy during/after college, have no problem speaking with girls (but with girls i like, i still do)...and now, i'm just goofy and dont really care...if i really like them, i'll go and ask...what's the worst that can happen, she saying no? like that's gonna kill me!
i feel for you Darknight and I also urge guys out there to be brave and bold. Dont procrastinate and go for it!
It's always better to have tried and lost than never having tried at all... There are still many ladies who can make you happy.. or you can make happy... Just learn how to listen... carefully, and really really care about her,, and soon you may have adorable children of your own.. Always remember that the most important thing in a relationship is to learn to care and love your partner... in a true and sincere way...
kinda makes one wonder how life would be different if you went one way or another. rejection is one of the worst feeling to experience...but never trying, well you never know until you try.
What a sad touching story. I've seen this happened to me before. Well, not the getting married and having kids part. The early bird gets the worm. Its better to try and fail then to never try and regret it for the rest of your life. If the girl/guy doesn't like you no biggie. Keep trying until you find one who's interested in you.
