Friend is Lost and Confused

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by JohnnyBgood, Apr 28, 2007.

  1. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Did he mean the girl go see his friend before leaving or the other guy?
     
  2. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    The way I read the text was that she go see his friend before leaving the class. Like I said before, I don't think it means anything since she is throwing herself at the other dood. heehe
     
  3. JohnnyBgood

    JohnnyBgood New Member

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    Sorry for the confusion. She sees my friend before she leaves.

    With other guy, I think she rejected him before, so what he did was stop going to class for a month and ignored her. Then they started to talk again.
     
  4. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    well..i would suggest to ask ur friend to move on.. unless the girl coud make things clear of whether she is interested or not..
    no point in waiting for something that would never happen.. its like waiting for money to fall from sky... sorry ^^
     
  5. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    That is strangeeee. Maybe she got a screw loose...hehe

    Seriously though, perhaps she is trying to make up for not talking to him or something
     
  6. Puhee

    Puhee Active Member

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    Love is confusing just support him and encourage him then you will be a good friend!
     
  7. JohnnyBgood

    JohnnyBgood New Member

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    I think what is holding my friend is that she keeps going to see him before she leaves. If she stops that, he will probably never talk to her again. Maybe she knows that and don't want to lose "a friend". One of those "I am nice person type". what cha think?
     
  8. misenlai

    misenlai Well-Known Member

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    i think she doesn't like him
     
  9. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Ask your friend to give the girl a little space. We don't like boys who practically "stalk" us. Once, there was this guy after me who has made his intentions known and is trying to see me every moment of the day. He freaked me out and I decided not to get with him because I get scared everytime I see him. So ask your friend to be patient and don't push. If she likes him, she'll make it a point to spend time with him. If she doesn't, she'll go for another guy. But if he pushes to hard she'd end up reacting like me. She'd reject him even if he's a nice guy because like+feel will turn to fear. ^^ Ask him to chill. The decision is really up to her and being impatient will capsize her good judgement of him.
     
  10. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    I concur. Give her space and time will tell.
     
  11. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    tell him to take his time and relax and just have small talk with her and dont do anything irrational ....and maybe she just dont like him as much its not all that amazing
     
  12. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    Agree!

    Could be, but why go out of your way?? Just split. hehe

    Hard to say...maybe a little or else u don't bother to see him

    Good explanation

    Good thinking, why lose a friend? Maybe give her shit for playing a fool with the other idiot...did I say the "other idiot"?...
     
  13. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    ^i concur. just be friends and from there, things might happen or not. losing a potentially good friend over fleeting infatuation (i'm not saying your friend has shallow feelings.. if that makes sense but my bet is, your friend will probably be able to move on to another girl within a few months or even a few weeks time)
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    It's best to ask ur friend to take it easy and take one day at a time...
    Like what the Chinese says 'sun kei chi yuen' (sorry if my pinyin is wrong haha).
     
  15. JohnnyBgood

    JohnnyBgood New Member

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    That's the problem, he is the type that would stay for a long time without looking for someone better. That is why I don't know if I gave him the right advise.
     
  16. kuv

    kuv New Member

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    Find another one. There is still many friend that might even a better one. cheer up
     
  17. xAttiAx

    xAttiAx Member

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    Another one of those cases. Your friend is getting rejected but just not in a direct way. He should just give up and find someone else.
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Problem is; the girl takes trouble to go see him every time before she leaves!
    Why would she do that after she rejects the guy?

    IMO she's saying sth like,"I like you.. but I am not rdy to hook up with you yet"
     
  19. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    These two quotes seems to make sense...what does 'sun kei chi yuen' mean? Any direct translation?