^ listening is only half the answer .. whether you will act on it is another; more important part. when you've done all you can to salvage the relationship and still no sign of comeback, then it's better to let things go.
it really takes time deleting someone from your life especially when their mental image is implanted in you... Its like... doing something for so long and suddenly you gotta change it, you know what I mean? But even the heaviest rain will outcome sunshine buddy, you just gotta stop thinking about her (I know its hard) but lets start by NOT looking at her facebook, go to the Gym, work out, play some more games and study. Try something new, Bowling, Learn the guitar or some tennis.
People shouldn't be so hard on rookies. We should help them. People act hard, but we are humans and we share the same thing.
Which rookies? the one @facebook? I listen to him for more than 3-4months, Really really want to help him out from his situation to get over his girlfriend. but he keep on saying, same thing over and over and show no respect for himself. You know when you get hurt, it takes time to heal,you can cry, scream, bang your head on the wall, but set some limit. after some period of time. STOP! if not you'll just getting annoying for others.
Bowling? LOL... handoff1 Go do like the rest of mankind and hang out in a girlie bar. By the third beer, you won't even remember what the hell she looked like...
heh, just went to my first club tonight actually went to 2 different ones. Not missing her as much anymore but still somewhat do, shes already found a new boyfriend well a guy that she likes so I know that I won't be able to get her back. Maybe cry a little or well try to hold it in and just the odd thoughts about her.
^ lol .. wow .. so much for puppy love .. lol anyway, club is a good place to hang and have fun but don't look around for ldr .. cuz "easy" gals are mostly SLUT .. not ldr potential.
I wouldn't knock them, whatever you think of the 'easy girls' they're only out enjoying themselves and having fun, they also serve to meet the needs of boys like this, who are in need of some sexual gratification to release themselves from their loneliness.
Yeah i don't really know what to do right now, been about 3 week nows and im starting to have dreams about her everynight. I can sleep a little better and I've been working out alot and playing more games to get my mind off her. Its just that moment when I sleep I think about her. People have told me that shes moved on and found someone new. Just bashing at myself why can't I do the same since she already has.
i know what you should do - move the fuck on, youre not going to be happy if youre miserable all the time so you two were together for 1 year 2 months, shes probably sleeping with her new fella, and you waste MORE time on her what you need to do is get out and meet new people have like a lads night out and go out on the pull lol cos youre not being a man about the situation - youre being a bitch. im guessing this is your first proper breakup, you just need to learn from this, move on, and if she comes calling back, say no.
^ wow .. showed you that the guy READ the thread before responding .. not many members do that these days .. most people just jump on and inject a pathetic reply and move on .. lol
success is the best revenge my brother. find a hotter girlfriend, go to college and get a good job. show her that its her loss. but I'm sure you won't give a shit about her by then hehe
well, i've been wih my ex for 3 years, lived together 3 years and i've a baby boy with her, only 8months old... she brooke with me for no reasons (or no reason i know). happened few weeks ago so well, dunno what to tell ya cause i'm also in "same case" as you but we got a child between us...
