Girl i like has a bf, what to do?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by PsychoAssasin, Apr 16, 2007.

  1. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    for this to go anywhere, this is all assuming that she even likes u....

    if she doesn't then its gg
    don't even bother doing anything

    alot of my female friends hardly ever refer to their bf as "bf"
    many times they just want to be friends

    it not like u cant b just friends with them....
     
  2. if that girl can go for you so easily, she can go for another just as easily.

    using the same reasoning you did -innocent2
     
  3. b-lee

    b-lee ǝʌıʇɔǝdsɹǝd ʇuǝɹǝɟɟıp ɐ

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    if that girl you're interested in is willing to dump her own bf so easily for you, then what would make you think she wouldnt do the same thing to you in the future?

    so in my eyes it's a lose-lose situation. if she does dump her bf for you, women//girls who are like that arent worth anyones time. and if she isn't that type of a person and you ask her out, you will look like a total ass. (maybe you are?)

    take the risk if you want or don't really care :p
     
  4. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    if u wanna play along
    then u can always just make her leave her bf, and u just don't start anything wif her =D

    otherwise, just leave them and let htme be happy =)
     
  5. LMAO ahahaha.. thats some funny stuff right there... -lol


    so what are you planning to do anyways?? hell who knows what will end up happening.. but if you really do like the girl... might as well give it a shot n see what happens.. just don't regret your choice if something bad happens along the way..
     
  6. taichi_masta

    taichi_masta Well-Known Member

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    Obviously there is something wrong with girls that are single...or they wouldn't be single! And where I'm from, even the mediocre girls are not single!

    That's the spirit!
     
  7. MissCheekS

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    it's not about her bf beating u up... but would u really feel good about it? After u steal someones gf... can u be happy? Wouldnt u feel guilty... U know its weird... u have even met her bf... >_< so dangerous!

    I agree with u dann!!! Wooohooo U go!
     
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  8. MissCheekS

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    Nothing wrong with girls who are single... they just wanna look around to see whats out there and save theirselves some drama for a while...
    Are you single? If yes, maybe something wrong with you?
     
  9. NYCDARKNESS

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    If you could have her you would already, that or quit being a pansy. You want it, take it.
     
  10. qoo2828

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    as long as she doesnt cheat on her bf atm its fine. IF she can leave him for anotehr person. tht means she isnt tht deeply in love with her bf anyways. just try and go for it. if u succeed congrats doesnt make u an ass it jsut means she isnt tht deeply in love so it would be right to do it. basically wht im tryign to say is. IF SHE IS COMPLETELY IN LVOE WITH THT GUY NO MATTER WHT U DO U CANT GET HER. so try it.. u dont lose anything..
     
  11. NYCDARKNESS

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    Hey Dr.Chin you get that from the back of a kleenex box? The dude needs some guts, not a shoulder to cry on.
     
  12. qoo2828

    qoo2828 Well-Known Member

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    hey jerkbag this guy is in love let him be.. he just need to know.. u can never get anything unless u try... even if u fail at least u can live ur life with no regrets =D
     
  13. MissCheekS

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    Dont try... seriously.... I hate people who try to steal bf/gf... My ex bf had those chicks too... hated them... i really felt like slapping them... One **** even cut our digi pic in two and pasted her own *** face on the pic... OMG...
     
  14. NYCDARKNESS

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    Sounds like both of you, spend alot of time with Ms. Lefty and Ms.Righty -^_^
     
  15. MissCheekS

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    Dude...WHoz the jerkbag? ur telling that guy to hit on someones' gf....
     
  16. NYCDARKNESS

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    If he gets her, then thats just means her relationship was bs. Girls get hit on all the time regardless of status.

    Guess it will be a tramp test huh?

    Any wagers (pass or fail)?
     
  17. qoo2828

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    i say if u COULD get tht girl y not try it? shes not married she stil has a right to chose. its not stealing... its giving her an alternative choice..
     
  18. MissCheekS

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    Ehm... It says a lot about her personality...



    Yeah, ud like that too when u have a gf right...
    Alternative choice... its just lame.. if ur not satisfied with ur relationship just quit... U dont need a 3rd person to do that right?
     
  19. taichi_masta

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    My bet is that he fails! =P Fails to ask her out that is...

    And I wish I had chicks lining up hitting on me and photoshopping themselves with me! Too bad I'm less than mediocre =P lol
     
  20. qoo2828

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    when i had a gf shed get hit on non stop.. i didnt mind cause it just shows how futile the efforts were... made me happier lol..

    and sometimes u need a 3rd person to be there to "TEST" the relationship.. i mean wht is a relationship without any ups or downs... liek wht the other guy said.. its a test of her character.... and what u look for in a gf... basically heres the theory

    Hit on her
    No - rejected, no love, no gf
    Yes - 50% chance of having a gf ( with some drawbacks )
    50% chance of her saying no

    sooooo..... weigh it out...