well i live my BF and we kinda are like you but then it's because we have lived with each other for so long that we are used to it, yes maybe that we are both busy somehow but we talk to see if we wanna do things and leave one of our errands till later and do something that we can do together i personally think that you should sit down and talk to her and organise something like a little outting, or a little holiday or maybe even just to go out for a meal, the cinema and even a little walk in the park to spend time with each other coz being in the house together don't really do much apart from jsut feeling at home and responsibility to do your errands around it
Is it possible for you to not to do your side job of fixing computers or do you guys have a big money problem? If it's not the case, then that could possibly free up a lot of time for you guys.
This may be true if they were just dating. But they're living together, so she sees him a lot already. She should let him hang out with his friends. If she keeps complaining about it, then DTB.
i think the problem is, u've made it too much like a schedule and she doesn't like that. seeing ur friends is important but do u have to see them every week, maybe take a week off and spend it with her rather than spending every wednesday with her. or see ur friends on wednesday or something rather than making it all seem like a schedule. i think that's what she doesn't like, cos it doesn't show that u love her enough to care about her, she's scared that u just see as a schedule like work or seeing ur friends every week on the same days.
I think you ought to spent more time with here, rather than spending it with your buddies and your car especially on weekends. Weekends tends to be special for them... If you really cannot afford the time, my advise to you is to stay single, as ultimately this sorts of argumentative relationship would not last. Just my thought.
