Here's my list: 1. Socially active 2. Be friendly to everyone 3. Be smart and cunning (this includes intellectual) sorry frat guys, those days are gone lol 4. Number three will allow you to do the following (1) show woman you are the future because smart is the new cool. 5. Have a make over e.g. if you are wearing running shoes with jeans and you are not on the same stage as Mark Zackaberg (FB founder) then you need to go shopping. or if you are blessed with a load of gold, good looks and somehow have a naturally soccer body built then look above lol.
Number 3 isn't particularly true. There are many intellectual individuals who have no luck in this department. And the same goes for detailed looks (shit like short hair, no facial hair, etc). Many girls define their ideal guy in hopes of justifying their standards, but a guy who has social wits, social aptitude and truly knows his way with words, body language and people skills will have an easier time than dudes with intellect. In the end, it's all about how well the guy conducts himself in social situations.
In no particular order: 1)highly intellectual 2)someone who challenges the way i think, challenges my attitude towards different things, challenges how i normally operate in the world 3)eloquent 4)socially and/or politically active 5)someone who can make me smile (often)
Yep, agree. Intellectual is not all, they must have aspect 1 and 2 at minimum. Combine point 1, 2, 3 and 5 is surely enough to get you noticed. What's next? growing some balls. I kid you not LOL. Example, I was the opposite of everyone in junior high school, then when senior and university life came I slowly learned and well today I am able to comment on this section. I believe being intellectual and understand how the social environment work will make you a lethal weapon XD
Wow, challenge the way you think. That's basically a nice way of saying disagreeing with u in almost everything which means arguments. Unless they do it in a suave and sophisticated way.
well.. that's women for us, guys. whatever you do, it's not right. you agree with her and say yes to whatever she says to make her have a good time "nooo you don't challenge the way i think", you disagree with her and object to her opinions "omfg why are you so mean to me?!".
actually yes, i do. and they usually end up with the woman "winning" because men have a handicap when arguing... they have to actually make sense
It reminds me of the film what women want? Guys need to be able to understand and hear what girls are thinking. So you know when to back down when challenging them so that you are not too mean but yo have produced the challenge.
to 80% of the girls on this planet Earth $ > his look > his height > his physique > his sense of humor > his intelligence
Psht, socially or politically active is a must in my opinion! I feel like you should be engaged in your world and do whatever it is that you can do to make it better, not live with your head stuck in the sand doing everything selfishly. It's fine if you don't want to live your life that way, it's just that some people might find you unattractive for it.
I'm not one for activism... I'm more of the belief that every individual should manage their own life to the best of their ability and act empathetically and honestly. As long as each individual person has their own shit together, there should be no need to go out and try to change the status quo. Unfortunately, this is almost never the case and people are dicks to one another on a consistent basis. Still... I have a hard time understanding the need to dictate to another person that their social or political philosophy is incorrect for any reason. Who am I to say my world-view is better than the next person's... we are all flawed to some degree anyway. Too many people, especially politicians, go out into the world and tell people to clean up their homes, then they go back to their own house and wallow in their own mess and feel good about the fact that they are 'changing the world', when they don't even have their own shit in order and for whatever reason, can't realize their own hypocrisy. I do the best I can to live my own life in a manner that contributes to the common good and doesn't detract from society as a whole. I would ask nothing more of someone I was romantically interested in. Not saying my worldview is correct, but I call it as I see it from my own eyes.
