You should just ignore those stupid people they just have no life and you shouldn't care about what other people say or think.
you know what, those people are just hating because they cant hang out with a bunch of guys comfortably. I am almost the same as you, all my mates are guys, hell, my best mate is a guy, people keep thinking we're dating, but thats their problem and fantasy, not mine, no skin off my nose to what they think about us. Difference is, i can range in a style of clothing, my friends are usually uhhh....well....prep, jock style kind of, i can dress girly, tomboy, punk, cute, whatever i want, skirts shorts skorts jeans trackies combats, anything, you just got to ignore the other people. It's true, hanging out with purely girls....just....too bitchy...too whiney...too much DORAMAAA.... I'm all for gossip and bitching, but with the guys....its just more funny, more jokes, laughs, they're not overly sensitive, and even though they treat you like one of the guys, they still hold some respect that your still a girl. At least thats the case for me ^^ IGNORE THOSE JEALOUS FOOLS! x
Don't worry. Now you know which people are nice and which are not nice. People say "stuffs" to you coz they have less than what you have. lolz It's part of the human nature.
OMG I sort of like you. I don't have much girl friends that I'm close with. I don't let it bother me anymore. Actually I just find it not worth my time to stress or think about it.
that has happened to me. i have a lot of guy friends for the same reason because i find it better to hang out with them. but i have no feelings for them. most treat me like one of the guys because i have some interests the same as them. girls get bitchy towards me and think i have a lot of different bfs because i hang around with most of them. but i guess theres not much to do about it except ignore them and just carry on doing whatevet you want to do.
jealousy makes people say bad things about good people ! yeah, i find that a lot of girls are saying "guys are easier to communicate with" more and more often. I guess because we don't really do that much shit talking and criticism.
who gives a flying shit wut ppl think ? its ur frens w/e as long as u dont flirt wtih too much of them haha and yeah girls start shit y not hang out wtih guys ?
lol I know what you mean.. most of my close friends .. like the ones I talk to the most about things are guys and like two girls. So yeah, when we hang out in groups its usually all guys except for myself and maybe another girl friend. But.. I was never called anything (at least I don't think ). LOL Uhh I don't think I'm very girly either. I don't wear make-up and only wear dresses if its a super special occasion, like a wedding or something. I don't even wear skirts. And I totally laugh at immature jokes, too! LOL Sometimes I even make them. Nothing wrong with that Yes, girls are bitchy and cause a lot of drama. I guess its best to stay away from them because when two and two clash theres no saying what will happen. Girls gossip a lot, and USUALLY guys don't. Thats why I usually tell my secrets to guys, cause I know they won't go around telling people what happened. Even my closest closest closest girl friends have told things I said not to tell. *sigh
ugh seriously, girls suck. guys are just soooo much better to be with don't worry about those girls .. they're just jealous that you got all these guys to hang out with and they're stuck with girls
Hrm... I find it easier to hang out with guys too mostly because I haven't had much luck with finding any girlfriends to confide in. There's possible problems with your situation but I think you should look at it this way: are the opinions of a few female peers who are obviously not your friends more important than your friends, regardless of their gender? If you care more about how your friendship with guys is viewed then I don't have much advice for you because I can guarantee you that no matter what you do, you'll still be perceived that way as the people who base their opinions of you by jumping to conclusions obviously don't use their brains. If you don't, then just do what makes you happy. By the way, I do want to caution you that guys are sensitive about how they're perceived so you should probably check to see how your guy friends are affected by the gossip. There is that added tension because sometimes even if you say it's platonic, it might not be on the guy's side. So you could take this opportunity to clear up any possible misunderstandings.
yes i can because ive already accepted he has more female friends than guy friends and hes accepted the fact that i have more guy friends
you may not be that type..but some girls hang out with guys so that they can be the center of attentiion
hkm91450!! i felt like i was reading about myself when i read your post! i know exactly how you feel. im not a girly girl or a tomboy either. i grew up around sports and played on countless sports teams (school teams, club teams, a city team and even community leagues). however, i do like to get all dolled up when i head out to a bar or a club with my friends. 85% of my friends are guys.....mainly cuz a third of the teams i played on are co-ed. girls are always asking me if i was boy crazy cuz i always hang out with guys. im not boy crazy. they are just friends. like you im independent and dont need a boyfriend to revolve my world around. then i get asked if i was a lesbian cuz i dont find the guys attractive. im not a lesbian. some of the guys i hang out with are physically attractive but that doesnt mean i like them. i dont like to date friends and plus, they are not my type. i hate the fact that those girls insinuate all these false rumors. i do have friends that are girls too. its just that they like to see the bad in people so it makes them look good. i say, if they want drama, they should just watch tv. plenty of drama there. word of advice: just ignore it. 99% of the time they are just jealous cuz they cant be like you and be able to be around the guys and not have the guys get all annoyed cuz they are too girly to be around. at least those are the comments i get from my guy friends. the guys just want to be around girls they can talk to and joke around with. not someone who wants to go shopping all the time and have them carry their bags as they shop like they're dogs or something. and dont feel alone! there are plenty of girls out there that are in the same boat as you!!
there are only two kind of people in this world, guys and girls..so whats wrong with hanging with guys? those people who starts this kind of rumors are just jealous! period.
