she whines and complains is that it? if you care about her, you can get past that cause not just her, but everyone whiens and complains but do you have a huge list of things you can't stand about her? maybe it's just cause of stress that your feeling this way
can't u hang out with ur fds in between breaks during college?? anyway seems like ur passion for ur gf is dying... perhaps suggest a small break between u 2 let's say for about a month n c if u miss her... if so then it's good... the flame should b back for a lil while it's understandable if u get bored of her... eating ur favourite everyday will prolly make u sick in a week... it's the same thing...
tbh....i think you already made up your mind... cause clearly what you say up there, well...I so far can't see any positive reason comine from you as to why you should stay with her... Short term pain is better than long term pain, so don't drag this on if your heart seems to already be set.
hmm.. mayb u can discuss well with her.. by sitting down.. and bring her together with u.. when u are out v ur frens..
i agree to wind2000 , you do need to organise your life. Because there is no excuse u fail to do that or lost that. U can't blame everything on your girlfriend. For example you could meet your friends out with ur girlfriend. or maybe make a schedule for yourself and what you do each hour. Basically make a plan for your daily routine.
Spend 30 minutes with your gf, a few times a week. It could even be everyday if you want. But make sure its "quality" time, not quantity. A lot of times girls will complain and bitch, but its all small shit. Don't sweat the small shit. She's not doing it on purpose to annoy you, just testing you. But you gotta whats most important to you. College is a busy time, but its gonna affect your future. Its your choice. You gotta make sacrifices in life. Find a way to balance out your life: Relationship/Money/Health
if she was a good girlfriend... she would understand why you're always so busy and give you some free time... I'm not saying she's bad though... don't get me wrong! maybe she feels insecure so she whines and complains
I guess she's whining because she feels insecure and left out because u've been so busy lately and hang out with her less.
yah many ppl are like that.. there like oh i been wid ma gf for like 4 yrs n i feel like i lost my youth and shit . man u guys are dicks stop being so selfish =/ and use ur brains....i mean college is alot and all but if she rly whines that much then yeah ...
yo dude dont be calling anyone dicks or whatever shit in here. just because ppl dont know what to do doesnt mean ppl can insult them.
talk her into the best solution.. if she doesn't listen and understands, ditch her. No point holding on and wasting both of your time. Love is to be shared and not to be clinged on to.
Pull yourself together, if you cannot manage it now and organise and control yourself now , you never will when you are married or living together.
you should definitely talk to her about it... you can talk to your gf and tell her you want one day per week just all by yourself...for working out or hanging out with friends, and another day you guys will spend together, hang out or whatever...and maybe she can help you taking care of your dog so that way you guys will spend time together too...
