well i havent fallen for a best friend but i've fell for a close friend. Well we broke up and now I dont know how to be his friend anymore and we barely talk.
hmmm... when a girl and a guy break up on good terms, i find it easier to still become friends.. but ive noticed a lot of girls dont know (or dont want?) to become friends with the dude.. why is that?
i don't think its bcos of that. its just i think girls want to move on more quickly and the best way for them to do so is to not become friends until they have moved on.
lol thats not true. name me any girl i used to be friends with, and i will tell you all of the bad times ive had with her. i know that cant be the reason lol now that, is a more plausible reason =)
interesting topic, I know a few of my friends who fell in love with their opposite sex best friend, but not me. Also, some of my friends find it hard to believe to have an opposite sex as your best friend...and not fall for her...
well i don't have a girl as close friends but i have woman as close friends who are already married its really weird... than there is never a chance with falling in loving with them and they treat me like there litle brother and i treat them like my sisters although i'm 21 years old turning 22 this year and those womans/friends are gorgeous :O
Thats bull. Its usually the guy who dunt want to be friends... i think that guys mind is that "once i have no more interest or chance be with the girl, why should i be her friend." Admit it guys...
ITs possible but i find that it usually comes to the point where one or the other will start liking each other i know that happened to me... but thats just between you me and the forum
well... it happened to me... big time. i've been her best friend/gay friend/special friend/awww sweet this sweet that blah blah. but for me i was thinking more than those. the feelings are bottling up after all these years. after all i treated her like a fcking her highness, the queen. but anyway recently, with a little push from a friend, i finally told her how i feel all those years. She said we can happen but she never dated anyone who is in her NOTORIOUS friend zone. but she was like "i guess everybody deserves a chance." Well so much for making me feel special. now it's kinda lame because shes in nyc and im in philly and on top of that we're on the "trying out mode" << donno wat exactly that is. but it sure made me feel even more worthless. anyway... now i started to feel that i deserve to be treated better. all these years i wanted to be with this girl pretty badly and now I started to lose that feeling. i think its because the feelings are getting too complicated. it's a mixture of extreme love and extreme hate where the hating part seems to dominate in my case. so i guess if u think u are falling for ur opposite sex best friend, confess as soon as u can before it gets too complicated. don't be like me T.T.
I don't think guys and girls can be super best friends ... Just good and close friends. Your Best Friend usually ends up being your soul mate ... Someone you're comfortable with when it comes to sharing secrets, happy moments, and sad times. I fell for my best guy friend ... It was hard denying my true feelings--Things just clicked so well between us and it just naturally happened--We both decided to take our friendship to the next level. As much as I didn't want to ruin what we had ... We were both willing to take the risk to see what awaits us at the end by walking hand in hand. To this date ... We are still together. *^_^*
