Guys Don't Like Smart Girls?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Jul 25, 2006.

  1. joannang

    joannang Active Member

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    i dont think thats true, alot of guys find smart girls attractive. maybe the guys who like stupid girls are pretty dumb themselves
     
  2. evalnekochan

    evalnekochan Well-Known Member

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  3. r74259

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    Who doesn't want a smart girlfriend? smart and intelligent is 2 different things. I prefer girls to have higher EQ than IQ, and as long as a guy does not find a gf that she expects more than he can gives...
     
  4. yuriyun3

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    i have alot of friends who dates gals who are smarter then them, and I got some that are the opposite..lol i think it all depends on that person and for my opinion, there's a mix going..
     
  5. sn00py

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    IQ - Rational Intelligence... a number used to express the apparent relative intelligence of a person that is the ratio multiplied by 100 of the mental age as reported on a standardized test to the chronological age. IQ is the measure of cognitive abilities, such as the ability to learn or understand or to deal with new situations; the skilled use of reason; the ability to apply knowledge to manipulate one's environment or to think abstractly as measured by objective criteria (as tests); mental acuteness; logic and analytical skills.


    EQ - Emotional Intelligence... a measure of your emotional intelligence, or your ability to use both your emotions and cognitive skills in your life. Emotional intelligence competencies include but are not limited to empathy, intuition, creativity, flexibility, resilience, coping, stress management, leadership, integrity, authenticity, intrapersonal skills and interpersonal skills.


    SUMMARY:
    EQ gets you through life vs. IQ gets you through school. Your EQ has more to do with your success and happiness in life than your IQ. Preferably, we want a gal with high EQ to support her better half to be successful in life. We want a gal with high IQ so she can help educate your child.


    If you want to learn more about EQ, buy the book written by Daniel Goleman - Working with Emotional Intelligence. It is a good book to read. -cool
     
  6. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    Arrggg. -shock ...to complicated...I'm a dumb guy -cool

    JK. Thanks
     
  7. Yuhsuke

    Yuhsuke Well-Known Member

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    I like girls that are slightly smarter than me or equal, why would you want a girl dumber than you?
     
  8. sn00py

    sn00py Well-Known Member

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    hahaha... who's telling you girls are not complicated? -innocent2

    I think the trick is guys learn how to listen or at least pretend to listen. You'll be amazed to find out more stuffs than you need to know...
     
  9. b-lee

    b-lee ǝʌıʇɔǝdsɹǝd ʇuǝɹǝɟɟıp ɐ

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    if i was forced to choose i'd go for the intelligent one; but honestly, smart or not so smart, it isnt a big factor.
     
  10. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Most guys I know, even though they say they would rather date a smart girl than a less bright girl, they do not display the type of tolerance to being challenged. So I guess they like smart girls so long as the girls are not smarter than themselves.

    And girls who know more about "manly" subject such as cars or computers or math? Most guys won't like to date them because their masculinity may be challenged in a HUGE way >.<
     
  11. yunski

    yunski Well-Known Member

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    I hate it when my wife tries to make me feel dumb.
     
  12. yorie

    yorie Well-Known Member

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    smart gal is good also,at least when u out of idea of something she can help u out,althought less smart gal will act more cute cos smart gal often very rasional n is kinda boring,but both also nice as long as u got the feel
     
  13. lwmtang

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    There are guys that are like that tooo...why can't guys have both packages? Look around....there are nerds who know how to party and keep up their grades at the same time! so in a sense..not all nerds are like that.
     
  14. Jun

    Jun Well-Known Member

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    guys that dont like smart girls have low self esteem...
     
  15. yorie

    yorie Well-Known Member

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    agree wit her/him.....
     
  16. roundbunny

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    i think dumb guys wouldn't like smart girls
    but smart guys like smart girls :)
     
  17. I find smart girls much easier to converse with because you dont have to explain things as much... so i would say i am much more attracted to a smart girl than a "dumb" one...
     
  18. yorie

    yorie Well-Known Member

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    dun use dumb,kinda "bad" cos they r just less smart,these kind of gal often like to act cute and innocent which sometime is quite sweet but over do it is kinda annoying.while gal who is too smart won't do such thing where u gonna feel kinda boring although it's nice that u never need to explain 10 times the same thing ^_^ ;overall choose the gal u love not the gal who is smarter or less smart...
     
  19. ssxsora

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    it probably depends on both girls and boys cuz the boy might like smart girls and smart girls might be real smart in school but out of school egg pplz houses on halloween and stuff =] like me? lol
     
  20. ah, now theres a difference between "smart" and "intelligent" lol

    i like a "smart" and "intelligent" girl ;)

    and if shes creative and cunning, more points for her haha