Guys: What Qs Do You Have for the Girls?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by gigi_gucci, Jun 6, 2007.

  1. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member



    where is hiake when we need her...I'm about to tell someone off on her birthday..!!!
     
    #681 adrianc, Jun 19, 2007
    Last edited: Jun 20, 2007
  2. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    ok..you can tell her she is getting old but tell it in a way like you are joking,otherwise no...let her know that it is your gift...perhaps she will be happy
     
  3. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    not much of a gift!!! Just a coupon to save 20 percent on shoes :) Person is not that important, but it is the thought that counts? maybe do something mean...to piss her off so I don have to talk to her again :)
     
  4. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    I don't remember if this question had been asked before.

    Under what circumstances would a girl be wiling to make the first move towards a man?
     
  5. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    so the question is: should I tell her she is being stalked????
     
  6. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Hmmmm... Never?

    JKS. If she likes him enough. We are lazy sometimes... Plus, if she doesn't think he may be interested, she will not make a move (which may make a fool of herself).
     
  7. Mugiwara

    Mugiwara Member

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    would girls go out with a guy just so she would not hurt his feelings?
     
  8. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Depends on how nice the girl is.

    But my answer is NO. Because there's no point in wasting both his time and mine if I am not interested (and going out with a guy just so I won't hurt his feeling pretty much equates "not interested" to me).
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    No way I would do such thing...
    I dont go on dates out of sympathy lol....
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Be direct. That's the best way. Girls don't really like to play the guessing game. And a guy who can't confess to a girl his feelings is deemed a coward :p
    I don't recall having made any first move... hm. Maybe never... like hiake said. Lol.
    But it depends, some girls are pretty bold nowadays. Not that I am a coward or anything. Just that I have too much dignity and I am vain.
    Not me, I won't do that.
     
  11. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    So many girls would rather lose the chance for a possible great relationship by not making the first move in order to keep her dignity?
     
  12. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Yes. Because dignity will not leave us but a mistaken relationship will. Not to mention it will break our heart on its way out.
     
  13. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Yep yep. That, and because being chased is much better than chasing after someone. So we may drop hints subtlely or sth, but won't ever make the first move. If the guy likes us, then he'll make the first move. -^_^
     
  14. ying713

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    i thinks cos we want to communicate with the guys, cos guys dont always talk ,they prefer to stare at monitor or tv only, so to create topic to talk...

    well i am answering now..and this is the first time i "multi quote" i hope all the msg can be deliver !!

    well who are we ?? we are girls.. we can do anything !!

    well does this prove that the man only interested in her private parts and not her brain or anything ?? of cos it hurts !! :(

    well provided she got nice figure and nice boob, maybe they are happy ...

    hm.. shy shy to answer ur question .. but assume sex is needed by both sexes.. so everyone will finger... ( i assume !! )

    I make the first move, but at the end ppl run away , i guess i show that i am desperate .. but how ?? leave it there and let the guy run away with other ??

    when i m interested, i will pay extra attention on him, the food he likes, the drinks he like, i buy him snacks, call him and tease around..
    i show sour face when he talks about other girls.. but at the end ?? i still loss the guys, cos ?? he does not like me .. so what the point to know that he/she likes u if u don't like him/her
    only ask provided u are interested ...



    well at least the girl still laugh, still give u face bo.. haha
     
  15. Mugiwara

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    if a friend suddenly liked u, but u dont have any extra feelings toward the friend, would u still be that same friend u once were, or change ur feelings toward that guy?
     
  16. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    u mean like a fuk buddy?
     
  17. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Depends on how aggressive he is about his feelings. If he goes "relationship or else", I will just sever whatever friendship I have with him. Otherwise, let's just be friends... -whistle
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    This happened to me before. I can still be the 'same' friend to that guy, but I doubt the guy can handle the rejection that well hehe. There are bound to be some uneasiness after the 'confession'. -rolleyes
     
  19. subaru3169

    subaru3169 Well-Known Member

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    are you one of those manslayers?? -tongue2-tongue2
     
  20. since88

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    Fortunately for me, I had this happen to me at a very very early age, and I was extremely close to him and his family, so since we were young and I did not know as much as I do now we were still really close and remained best friends all the way till high school. However, now that I am a little older, my character has changed followed with my personality and since then I had other friends like me and I really do not care as long as the other party does not try anything with me I'm fine with staying the way things are. BUT!! guys get emotional just as much as girls, so eventually they will get jealous and act in a way that is not acceptable for me and I'd have to eventually end the friendship.