Well... st first... TOO jealous is never good. Overprotective types aren't attractive at all. A bit jealous is no problem, would even let girls think the guy is caring about her a lot. BUT... Totally not jealous could make (some kinds of) girls making assumptions... "He's not caring about me anymore". But hey, if you guys are talking to eachother, this shouldn't be a problem at all. My bf has always let me go wherever I wanted, with whom I wanted... Even when I was going to the beach with my ex. No clue of jealousy. I used to thinking like he was not caring about me. But the only thing he did, was trusting me. I lately found out he wasn't really happy with the fact I was having that date with my ex, but he has always trusted me, that's even more worth to me... Don't you think? Sooo... it's different... some are jealous... in my eyes not a very good sign... some are not jealous... doesn't have to be good as well... but it could be... it's like a mindgame... Don't think too much! ^_^
guys normally dont like to show their emotion becuase they would be seen as weak. i think thats why. But if that guys doenst show much jealousy maybe its becuase he has complete trust in you, adn knows that u wont do anything even if u are with a guys friend. But i am sure he cares, but just dotn know how to express it, and besides i think he want to know but doesnt wnat to be seen liek he is needy, and u mite think he is controlling you. thats why he rather keep quite, but u can always talk to him
lol.. long story short, Too much jealousy is bad Just the right amount is good None is bad so wat are some good jealous moves?? i can think of a far few bad ones.. as a guy, full hav a scene with the opposing guy, snap and lecture her, u know being a douche
i think most people get jealous when someone really better looking is even in the sight of their GF that they feel its like a threat and start becoming a jerk face to look good in front of her or would just want to leave right away. Is this true for girls too? like say some really hot girl comes by and ur bf starts to notice... just a curious question with no relation if anyone could answer
girl very hard to understand.i think depend on personal.my GF prefer more privacy,so i not realy care.if later to strict,she will say "Son of a bitch,u dont owned me.i got my own freedom,dammit".
GIRLS OPINION ONLY! what if she is not your girlfriend but you do say stuff like back off she is mine ? lol
my girlfriend has told me she wouldn't mind if i were jealous occasionally, but she wont try to provoke jealousy intentionally. ^^ I'm generally quite laid back and I trust her alot, so its hard to get jealous when I know im the only real guy in her life. lol the fact you are trying to provoke your boyfriend is unfortunate. I think that shows some trust issues, and definite insecurity on your part.
Why would you want him to be jealous? This just increases the chances of argument and discord between you... Especially since you are the one provoking him. While it's nice to see that he cares enough to get jealous, I don't see the point of deliberately provoking him, since it doesn't help anyone and will only lead to both of you being unhappy about the situation. Perhaps he is just not a jealous guy, in which case, he will probably move on before he acts "jealous" in the way that you want him to.
I'm haveing the same problem as you. He told me that he's got no problem with me talking/ being w/ other guys, but i get so jealous when he mentions decent girls that he's talked to. He's prbably hiding his jealousy. Or, find a really decent guy to talk to and give it a try again to see his reaction =)
i dont think guys will show jealousy, but they are....or you could be thinking too much about seeing him in the need to show more affection
