i think it's kinda sad if you cut her off cause I've had that, where I still wna be friend but my exs just want to cut me off to make it easier. You should consider her feelings or maybe tell her that you feel its a bit difficult to be as close as you guys used to be.
the something happened to me 3-4 months ago. and now we still talk on the phone, but we dont see each other as much. but we are stilll veryy good friends; we talk about anything pretty much.
theres a reason their an EX......if it didnt work out b4 what makes u think itll work out again.....u dont miss her.... what ur feeling is the lack of companionship
Just have a cooling period. She may be insisting on "friendship" because you're clinging to her. Time would give her some breathing space to really think. If she misses u, she really likes u right? It's also good for you. Learn to put a distance between both of you. You guys ain't together anymore so there must be clear definition between what is and isn't. Take time to do it. Continuous contact with her would tire her and make u wan back the relationship more.
if u hv made up ur mind to move on, then stop talkin/seein her for a while until ur feelins for her cools down! then it wud b easier to start bein frds agen. Yet,if deep down u r still waitin for a chance for union,which u sound like to,then keepin contact with her is not a bad idea.at least it provides u a chance to get close to her!
I had this situation before. You love her, you love her soo much and put everything into it but she doesnt love you as much, she just thinks its Friendship. My friend says: After love, if you can continue being friends then it was friends all along. If you cant then you actually felt something for them. So in our case, we cant be friends but they cant so basically its one sided love and you cant really make her change her friendship feeling towards you into love. It wont happen unless you try really hard. For my girl, I gave up for her, if she cant realise how much i done for her, how much I put into her, then she doesnt deserver to be my GF (Shes not worth being my GF) and I ll move onto find someone more special!!
i'm having the same situation as ur's .. i still love him but dun wan to be together anymore. I still wanna keep the frenship going on .. but how ?? I dun wan to break contact just like tat .
the subject reminded me of justin lo's song... he's coming to syd next week -inlove anyway... if she still wants to b fds with u that means u still got a chance... if u keep hanging around her she'll NEVER get over u coz in her mind there'll always b a possibility of getting back with u... so do u want her back?
if you really wanna move on then you should quit contact with her for now, until you think you're over her
I wanna know is...why people break up without a reason?....I mean b4 u were a couple....u would do anything to get the girl/guy of ur dreams and now u break up with the girl/guy of ur dreams there are many guys/girls who would love to have a relationship but they cant:(
at least she still wants to be friends with you.. like be glad because some ppl arent even friends after they break up.. which is a sad thing.. i know how you feel and all buh trust me.. its quite hard to get over someone especially when you've had strong feelings towards her.. i'll tell you my experience.. i broke up like 8 months ago.. and i've been with him for a year and 4 months.. and its a long time.. i was very dedicated to him.. and 8 months later, here i am, still aching for him.. i still love him heaps.. which is lame of me i guess.. and i havent talked to him after our break up until a few days ago =/ and we still talk about our past and what things went wrong and stuff
Just let nature takes its course. Because if you stop contacting her, you feel that "even though we broke up, but I believe that I could still be friends with her". Probably, just remain as it is, let time be something that will slowly erase her out of your mind and heart =)
go out meet anyother girl, nd everytime u fink of her just think about her bad quality, otherwise u wudnt have broke up in da first place
i'm in your shoes man. i couldn't decide either... i wanted to stay friends at least because we been through so much, even tho i wanted much more than that. it started off as a mutual breakup... until she found someone else... in a month. -.- but everyone told me it was best to break contact until i dont have feelings for her anymore. i couldn't do it... i tried several times to break contact but it didn't work, she would get really depressed and i just dint that. yea yea, she's manipulating me huh? but o well. we're still talking now... we hang out like we use to. only problem is that she's seeing someone. my advice... get your thoughts straight and don't try to go after her anymore. if anything that would make her like you less. go out with your friends, have fun, keep busy... or at least let it seem like you're happy without her. if you want to stay friends... prepare to feel some pain. in my perspective, i felt that it was okay for me to hurt a lil... as long as she's happy, that's how much i loved her. and then as time went on, it dint hurt as much... but occasionally a little, everytime i see something related to her and another guy. i've kept myself busy, and i tried to go out and have fun all the time. make new friends, meet new ppl, especially girls... =) my way isn't the right way... everyone tells me to stop talking to her, even her friends. needless to say that i didn't listen... they aren't the ones in my shoes, so i decided to do what i wanted. so do what you want... and note that probably 99% of the people on earth would tell you to stop talking to her. =)
alright i just finished going through that phase well not 100% but there is nothing else you can do about it just let things glide.............and eventually it will stop bothering you..............im trying to take my own advice so just go with this one for now
