yeah, when people have sex the body produces these chemicals that relax the body so in most cases sex is one of the best stress relievers.... unless of course you are doing it against your will and or for the wrong reasons...
until you split up and realised that your used/damaged goods. I feel sorry for the husband who has his wife knowing that some ex boyfriend has seen it all, had it all and chose to give it up for something else, talk about sloppy seconds. Unfortunately many people don't understand what Love is, we need to distinguish the difference between love and lust. the above describes Lust PERFECTLY!! dont give a crap about anything else, it just about the sex.. i believe this is one of the reasons why divorce is ever so popular
^master_g? does this mean ur a virgin? if yes...good on u.... it seldom happens for guys n girls to keep virginity until marriage....respect if no n u regret havin sex before i can somewhat understand ur post if no n u dont regret i dont really understand n i really dislike guys who think like that because im against guys having double standards... soooo im not saying its right or wrong to have sex before marriage but i always feel people should do watever they want to with their own body as long as they are not harming other ppl its much harder to resist temptation these days... sex is all over the place....
wasasaaap angie yeah im a virgin ofc i have had my opportunities to put an end to that but i do want to do it properly, family is important to me. if i wasnt a virgin myself i wouldnt dare say what i say as i cant ask for such a wife if im not a virgin myself, yup that would be double standards>.< aye, sex is put before our eyes all day every day thanks to the media, it almost seems like those at the top who are in control want us to behave a certain way...
good for you master g...... but unfortunately for most of us we aren't because we just have a different approach... then again aren't you religious? so that does play a big role.......
yeah...i think there arent many virgins these days especially my age... not saying its a good thing but times and things have changed... but yea master_g.... good on u ... not many ppl will stay virgin until marriage unless they are religious(although so many religious ppl have sex b4 marriage too)...
i think it's the culture really .. westerners are exceptionally more open to sex before marriage. i don't know about other people's family but it's a taboo in my family. regardless, i wouldn't let my family know about it anyway since it's my personal life. i only tell them when i am serious about something or someone. in other words, i don't bring the gal home unless she's the one i am going to marry. all these time, my family thought i was hanging with my friends and actually believe that i was gay since i was not seen dating anyone ... lol .. the reason for doing that was to avoid "nagging or any sort of long conversation about each girl i bring home" .. you know the conversation you have with parents .. lol
lol.... i bring girls home.... and they spend the night..... my mom use to give me shit about it... now i have my own place....
personally, i dont believe in having sex before marriage - unless i truely found someone that i believe i would get married to. But taking into consideration of comments made earlier, such as teenage pregnancy and spreading sexual diseases, this matter cannot be taken lightly. But im willing to stay faithful until i find "that person" - maybe wait til marriage. I don't wanna cause uneccessary pain to the other person, or vice versa. Thats why sex before marriage is a no to me
whuuut hahaha... ??? do u mean those are ur GF as in u have a relationship with them or just random pick ups? cuz that would b pretty awkward lol... im allowed to bring my bf's home to stay over but if id bring a random to the house im pretty sure my mum n dad would kick my butt
that's wrong .. never bring a gf/bf into your parents' home. i don't know what parents are thinking these days .. saying that it's better than their fuck around the house than outside .. if i did that, my parents would've kicked me out of the house faster than a bullet train. it's just plain respect for them. now that i am older and married, i think the same thing too not cuz i was affected by them but it's just wrong for my child/ren to bring just anyone home serious or not. home is home; not a hotel.
^ dont b mean guys... different parents different rules... im glad my parents allowed me to bring bf over....i never had to lie to them my mum n i have a very good bond n i think its important that she gets along with my bf too some of my friends with strict parents always had to lie...their always like... oh im going away with the girls this weekend but just staying over at guy's place... some were dating guys for over 3 years n their parents didnt even know about it i dont think thats right...
lol having bf/gf over and meeting parents is one thing, having the two of them getting it on in the next bed room as your parents' is a totally different thing...
^ i dunno... my parents dont mind...my older brother n sister can do it n all my cousins do it too.... guess we are just modern we are just open minded people
^ my mom gave me a lot of shit about my GF's sleeping over.... eventually she got use to it because i told her i sleep over her house all the time and blah... and no I wouldn't bring random girls home if i was still living in my parents house.... that is wrong.... on GF's...
